Addi, Levi, Lila, Jaiden, Hallie Kate, and Hannah's Granna

Hallie Kate Courington

2011-05-24T11:49:00.003-05:00

I do not Blog as much, obviously, but I must record the birth of our precious Hallie Kate. What a sweet, beautiful baby. Her mommy did a great job and her daddy did, too. She weighed 6 pounds and 12 ounces and she seems so tiny. May God bless her and allow her many years to enjoy life and happiness on this wonderful planet. Welcome to the family, Miss Hallie Kate.....Granna and Gramps love you so much! By the way, this is grandchild #6 and granddaughter #5

Remembering Mother on her Birthday

2011-02-15T19:53:00.003-06:00

It is so hard to believe that my dear mother has been gone almost 13 years. Tomorrow would be her 99th birthday! I have been blessed in many ways, but I was truly blessed with a caring mother. I think of Mother often...every day. I don't guess that will ever change. I want to tell her things..and sometimes I do. I like to think she can "hear" me and at least it is a nice thought. Mother was an avid reader...do you think they have blogs in Heaven? Thank you God for blessing the Melton children with the gift of our Mother- Velma Grubbs Melton- February 16, 1912-June 15, 1998
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The Power of Smell

2011-01-22T11:45:00.003-06:00

I have had a bad crick in my neck for over a week. Thankfully the past two days have seen improvement, but it is still not totally gone. I have taken over the counter stuff, and it hasn't seemed to help. I have thought about the Chiro, but I keep thinking since it is improving it will eventually work out by itself. A couple of nights ago David asked me if I had thought about using the heating pad (yes, some people say heat, some say ice...most of my research says heat) and it came to my mind that in a drawer in the extra bathroom there was a long, narrow heating pad that would be perfect for my neck. I remembered that it was one of the few things I kept of my mother's belongings (now I wish I had kept more, but once she went into the nursing home we had to clear her home fairly fast and I did not have anywhere to store a lot of things so most items were given away and dispersed her and there- nothing was of real value and there were no antiques or collectibles of any nature- the things she did treasure found homes among family members) and I was not even certain it would still work as it had been unused for the past twelve years. I came to my spot on the couch and plugged the pad in, wrapped securely around my cricked neck. In a matter of about five minutes I began to feel the heat and soon thereafter I felt tears in my eyes. Tears that came from some place deep in my mind---tears brought on by the powerful sense of smell. Yes, even after twelve years I could "smell" Mother. I could smell the familiar scent of Avon and Absorbine! How could something hold a smell for twelve years? But as certain as anything, that is what I was smelling. Once several years after Mother died I was in Walmart happily shopping without any thought of her in my mind, when all of a sudden I felt tears rolling down my cheeks. I felt embarrassed as I wondered what in the world would make me cry in the middle of the health and beauty department. I began to look around, thankful there was no one else in sight, and out of the corner of my eye I caught the familiar gold, black and cream colored box that was my mother's face powder. Smell is powerful. I will admit stopping in Walmart on occasion and picking up a box of that powder and taking a sniff- crazy huh?

Merry Christmas

2010-12-24T12:17:00.002-06:00

It is hard to believe that Christmas Eve is here once again. I love this day. Our family always opened presents on Christmas Eve, so this day is full of memories. Today I truly miss my Mother. She always worked hard to make certain we had a good Christmas. Of course my Daddy always provided the check...without ever thinking about it, he just turned it over to Mother and she paid the bills, bought the groceries, clothing, furniture, etc. She was an excellent manager, and her bookkeeping skills consisted of a pencil, eraser, and a piece of paper. We saw some hard times, but with her good management, we pulled through.
Today we will celebrate with family. Unlike many families, our sides have mingled together as our gatherings include both "my" family and "David's" family, plus some of our children's families. We get along and enjoy being with one another. Sadly it seems these events are limited to holidays, but we take what we can get.
This has not been the best year. Of course the worst part has been Addi's headaches and the battle to get her some medical care. Thankful to God that we are in a good period (headache free for 6 weeks) and we thank Him for His mercy. We know that we live in a world set in motion and that the good suffer with the bad, but it is so hard to see a child suffer. If you spend a few days at Children's Hospital, you learn that suffering takes no holidays. This has also been a tough year for David's mom. She continues to suffer from reoccurring UTI's and when she has one, they really knock her for a loop. David is such a wonderful care-taker. He diligently sees to his parents needs, and just keeping up with the business end is a full-time job.
We have been blessed with good news this year, too. We have two new babies in our extended family- Emma Grace and Enoch. Lord willing, Hallie Kate Courington will be here in the spring (May) and we are so excited about her arrival. God is good.
Well, better run. I have two dishes to prepare and I have to get everything else together.
Merry Christmas and May God bless you with a wonderful new year!
Susan

Happy Birthday, Addi!

2010-11-30T20:24:00.005-06:00

There are just no words for how special Addi is to me. Like all the grandchildren, she is amazingly beautiful, smart, precious, and a gift from God. This has been an incredibly hard year for her, and she has really been a trooper. We are thankful for all the good days, and prayerful that the good days are going to be the norm for this 8th year of her life! The day Addi was born was a mixed bag...to think about how close we came to losing both Kim and Addi still makes me shiver, but to remember that beautiful little baby when she was placed in my arms, made me know that being a grandparent was going to be an awesome path of life. Happy birthday, angel...Granna loves you beyond words!

RERUN OF A RERUN

2010-11-22T10:12:00.000-06:00

BLOG RRERUN OF A RERUN- HOPE YOU ENJOY- AGAIN
Thanksgiving – Dixie Style
I received the following from my sister. It was written by my actress niece, Leslie. Leslie now resides in California- which to tell you truthfully, we all find a bit unusual and exotic for our never venture far from their roots family. My sister and I often comment on how our mother would find great joy and delight in the fact that her couch now resides in Pasadena. Anyway, with the holidays not too far away, please enjoy-
Thanksgiving – Dixie StyleWhen I was asked to write a blog about my favorite Thanksgiving memory, I was flooded with so many, I had a hard time choosing what to write about. When I was younger, Thanksgiving was a time to hang out with my family and eat great food. I really didn’t think much about the holiday beyond that. I left my hometown of Birmingham, Alabama five years ago to pursue an acting career in Los Angeles, and Thanksgiving certainly carries a lot more weight for me now than it did then. No matter what, I go home for Thanksgiving every year. Now, instead of it being about hanging out with my family, it is about reconnecting with my family. While I used to enjoy eating great food, I now savor aromas and tastes I can only get when I make that 2,000 mile trek home. So many things I used to take for granted about that time of year in the South I don’t anymore: hearing the crunch of leaves underneath my feet, feeling the bristle of wind whip my hair around, watching those long red sunsets through the crisp air. Those are just the moments by myself. After spending the better part of the year alone in my little Los Angelian apartment, it is great to be surrounded by my family: loud, boisterous, welcoming, loving, and always ready to have a good time. In addition to eating all the great food (I’ll get to that in a minute), we spend the evening playing Balderdash and other competitive games like it’s the Olympics, draw names for who we will buy gifts for at Christmas and catch up on what’s going on in everyone’s life. The food, ah, the food. Like any Southern family, we have enough food to feed a small nation. It all tastes good, and it is all bad for you. My very favorite dish is my aunt’s peanut butter pie. When I tell people this, they say, “Oh yeah, I’ve had peanut butter pie” to which I quickly reply, “Oh no you haven’t!” How do I know this? I HAVEN’T SEEN THEM AT ANY OF MY THANKSGIVINGS! My aunt makes the best peanut butter pie ever. I’ve always associated peanut butter pie with Thanksgiving, and now that I travel cross-country to eat it, she makes two for good measure. It may sound silly, but knowing I will get that peanut butter pie the fourth Thursday of every November brings warmth and security to my life. I may not know how successful my acting career will be, but hey, on Thanksgiving I get peanut butter pie. I may be separated from my family for the vast majority of the year, but end of November, I get peanut butter pie. If nobody appreciates my talents and sacrifices, I STILL get peanut butter pie. I have friends who moved to LA from other parts of the country like myself, and many of them talk about how they can’t go home because of the cost of air fare, time off of work, blah, blah, blah. I simply reply, “Well, I have a date in Alabama with a peanut butter pie.” I can’t remember who it was who said the simple things in life bring us the greatest pleasure, but I couldn’t agree more. As you can see, the pie isn’t difficult to make, but I think it is the love instead of the ingredients that make it so great!From my Aunt Susan:Ingredients:8 ounces Cream Cheese1 cup Powdered Sugar1/2 cup creamy peanut butter16 ounces Cool Whip1 pre-made graham cracker pie crustDirections:In a large bowl, mix the cream cheese, powdered sugar, peanut butter, and cool whip until well blended. Pour into the pre-made pie crust. Refrigerate. For a more peanut butter taste, use 2/3 cup of creamy peanut butter.
Leslie McGuirk
Pasadena, CA

2010-11-14T13:46:00.007-06:00

Ahhh...the holidays are upon us and I am looking forward to spending time with family and friends (and I am certain there will be some food involved, as well!). I am looking forward to watching The Polar Express, as soon as it is cool enough to put some logs in the fireplace. I am looking forward to buying the turkeys and all the trimmings, and I like Thanksgiving food shopping when everyone else is busy filling their buggy with traditional foods. Sometimes I like to look at what other people are buying and try to decide what they are going to cook.

I am happy that at the moment (and we live in the "moment" it seems!) that my sweet Addi does not have a headache. Her tummy is still bothering her and she will see the gastro doctor on Wednesday, so perhaps he will have some suggestions. This week she will also see her pediatrician and the psychologist from the pain center. This morning she was in good humor and we laughed and it was so wonderful. Since January I have asked for prayers for Addi and so many have prayed for her and we truly appreciate the concern. She is a special girl.

We are excited that Levi, Hannah, Lila, and Jaiden are all healthy and happy and along with Addi, will make the holidays special. We are also excited that we have a new grandbaby on the way and we are eager to welcome him or her into the mix. Grandchildren are so wonderful!

Enjoy the week and enjoy a few random photos, as well!

To My Precious Daughter

2010-10-27T16:31:00.002-05:00

Happy Birthday, Kim! Can it be that tomorrow you will be 32? Seems unreal to me. What a joy you have been to our family. Words don't begin to measure to the love I feel for you. I want you to know how proud I am of you, especially the wonderful wife and mother that you are to Paul and the kids. This has been a terrible year, for the most part, I know. You have had to endure some really hard days, yet you have really stuck it out. You have been a true advocate for Addi, and she knows that. I know there have been days I wanted to take the burden for both of you, but that is not how life works. I hurt when you hurt, just as you hurt when Addi, Levi or Lila hurts, and I cry when you cry. Being a mother never gets easier, I don't believe! All this to say what a special girl you are and how blessed I am to be your Mom!!!

Happy Birthday, Jaiden!

2010-10-19T22:18:00.003-05:00

Our sweet baby Jaiden will be one tomorrow. Hard to believe. She is smart, beautiful, sweet, and perfect. We can't imagine life without her. I still marvel at how much you can love the children of your children. I understand it better with each and every grandchild that comes along!

Sweet Lila

2010-10-11T20:03:00.002-05:00

Tomorrow sweet Lila will celebrate her third birthday. It seems popular opinion says that Lila is a mini-me. I am not so sure about that because she is really a cutie pie! Lila has personality galore and is such a loving little girl. She is smart, and so articulate for a mere three years old (much like her mother at that age!). I can't imagine life without sweet Lila. Happy Birthday, Lila!

Happy Fall, Y'all!

2010-10-02T21:29:00.002-05:00

I have once again been a delinquent blogger. I want to blog, but I just don't seem to find the time. I have been teaching my usual fall class and it takes a lot of time aside from just the regular day to day obligations. The final is next week so after that I should be a little less tied down.
So much has happened since I last blogged, too much to catch up. Of course the BIGGEST news is that we are going to be blessed with another grandchild. Daniel and Mandi are expecting their first baby on May 10th. To say we are excited would be an understatement. Please pray for them and pray for the sweet baby that it will be born healthy and happy. It seems kind of surreal to think of my "baby" having a "baby"!
Katie and Josh are in Houston as I type this entry. Katie's mom, Connie, had surgery on Tuesday. Everything went well, but it was a major surgery lasting about 9 hours. I am glad the kids have been able to go and to see her. She is going to be in the hospital several weeks and then some more time in Houston before she goes home. Also, Katie's brother and sister-in-law had their twin girls last week. Maggie and Sophie were not due until later in November, so they arrived pretty early. They weighed 3-4 and 3-12 but they have had some problems with brain bleeds. At first it seemed one of the bleeds was very serious and that one was not quite as serious- then they were told that the most serious bleed was not as bad as originally thought but the less serious bleed was more serious. Talk about a roller coaster ride. Then, thank God, they were told at the end of this week that they felt the bleeds were probably not going to be a serious issue! One of the girls had a heart issue that they were told would require surgery- they did a scan yesterday and guess what- it appears to be healing on its own! Answered prayers for certain. Please continue to pray for them.
Addi seems to be feeling a lot better. She still has a headache, but apparently some of her meds had made her quit eating and become very sluggish. Kim decreased the dosage and she is much better. She had lost a lot of weight, but today she ate really well and has already picked a little of what she had lost back up-weight loss like that is not what anyone wants! She is going to the pain clinic this Thursday so we will see what they have to offer. I will be glad when her doctor gets back to America in December!
Thankfully we are seeing some cooler weather, and we have certainly been enjoying football Saturdays! War Eagle and Good Night to All!

Mothering

2010-07-15T13:22:00.004-05:00

Last night David and I were talking as we ventured down the highway. I commented that it bothered me when I continually see and hear comments from mothers regarding wanting "me" time away from their children. I also commented that during Addi's 105 day headache, hospitalizations, doctors visits too numerous to count, pharmacy trips galore, and listening to the poor child moan and groan in pain for hours and days on end, I never once heard Kim say anything about needing "me" time. Now believe me, there were times she called me crying, but not because she wanted to go to the mall, but because she could not do anything for her child and she needed her own mother. Kim knows how to be a mother, I am proud to say. Katie is also a great mother. She takes such good care of Hannah and Jaiden and she has their best interest at heart. She has a wonderful mother herself, and I know that Connie has always put her children as a priority, and what a great example that was for Katie. What makes someone a good mother...perhaps they learn best when they have someone who has loved them and cared for them above all else. I had a mother like that. Our needs were always her priority and because of that, I think my sister and myself have done okay in the mothering department. While I know I have made my share of mistakes, I hope that I have not only been a good mother, but that I have mothered...if that makes sense. Believe me, when the kids are grown and gone, you will never remember the mall trips, manicures, shopping, dining out, being "alone"- but you will remember the time you spent mothering. Don't get me wrong- there are times we all need a break, even from our own kids, but my fear is we have a generation of parents who want a continual break. We live in a selfish world...and remember, selfishness begets sin! It ain't about me anymore once you become a parent...it is about that little one that you brought into the world, even if it was not planned. So, I guess I am saying that being a good mother is the hardest job you will ever have and you only get one chance to be successful!

The Dining Room Table

2010-06-29T13:34:00.003-05:00

In 1977, just after David and I married, we accepted as position at the Sansom Avenue Church of Christ. We bought furniture...a bedroom suite, a dining room table (just the table and six chairs), appliances, sofa, chair, etc. Furniture at that time must have been better as a whole. We have been through many appliances in the past almost 34 years, but we still use our bedroom dresser, chest, and nightstand. And, amazingly, we still use the same table and all six chairs. Many times I have had in mind buying new dining room furniture, with a hutch and all the trimmings...but then I see my table and my heart will not let it go. Oh if that table could talk! I think of all the wonderful people who have shared meals with us at that table. I see my "babies" in their high chair at that table. I see the scratches that Janelle and Jeannettes little sandals put on the chairs when they were almost brand new...and I would not take anything for those scratches. I think of the Gospel preachers who have sat at that table...many who have gone on to their reward. David's grandparents, my mother, the list goes on and on. Many Thanksgving meals with family and friends too numerous to count or name, Christmas Open House with the table adorned and loaded with all those fattening goodies. Oh the conversations that have been had at that table. Events of normal school days, stories happy and sad, and watching three little kids grow up and bring their spouses and children to the same table. Today as I was dusting the table (yes, sadly we don't use it as much as we should), I was flooded with memories....most of them good. I am thankful that my table has been a part of this family for over three decades and although it is scratched and nicked, it is a special part of our lives.

On Mother's Day

2010-05-09T15:08:00.000-05:00

The young mother set her foot on the path of life. “Is this the long way?” she asked. And the guide said: “Yes, and the way is hard And you will be old before you reach the end of it. But the end will be better than the beginning.” But the young mother was happy, and she would not believe that anything could be better than these years. So she played with her children, and gathered flowers for them along the way, and bathed them in the clear streams; and the sun shone on them, and the young Mother cried, “Nothing will ever be lovelier than this.” Then the night came, and the storm, and the path was dark, and the children shook with fear and cold, and the mother drew them close and covered them with her mantle, and the children said, “Mother, we are not afraid, for you are near, and no harm can come.” And the morning came, and there was a hill ahead, and the children climbed and grew weary, and the mother was weary. But at all times she said to the children, “A little patience and we are there.” So the children climbed, and when they reached the top they said, “Mother, we would not have done it without you.” And the mother, when she lay down at night looked up at the stars and said, “This is a better day than the last, for my children have learned fortitude in the face of hardness. Yesterday, I gave them courage. Today, I’ve given them strength.” And the next day came strange clouds which darkened the earth, clouds of war and hate and evil, and the children groped and stumbled, and the mother said: “Look up. Lift your eyes to the light. darkness. And that night the Mother said, “This is the best day of all, for I have shown my children God.” And the days went on, and the weeks and the months and the years, and the mother grew old and she was little and bent. And when the way was rough, they lifted her, for she was as light as a feather; and at last they came to a hill, and beyond they could see a shining road and golden gates flung wide And is better than the beginning, for my children can walk alone, and their children after them.”And the children said, “You will always walk with us, Mother, even when you have gone through the gates.”And they stood and watched her as she went on alone, and the gates closed after her. And they said: “We cannot see her but she is with us still. A Mother like ours is more than a memory. She is a living presence...” Your Mother is always with you.... She’s the whisper of the leaves as you walk down the street; she’s the smell of bleach in your freshly laundered socks; she’s the cool hand on your brow when you’re not well. Your Mother lives inside your laughter. And she’s crystallized in every tear drop. She’s the place you came from, your first home; and she’s the map you follow with every step you take. She’s your first love and your first heartbreak, and nothing on earth can separate you. Not time, not space ... not even death!

Temptation

2010-05-05T17:35:00.003-05:00

On Monday Kim and I went back to Weight Watchers. It was not a minute too soon for me. I have stress ate for the past four months. I never thought I was a stress eater, but I have been lately. Add the stress to eating out a lot more and you have gained poundage! Every blooming time I loose weight, I say..."I am not going to gain this weight back", only to have it find it's way back onto my body. I stopped short, this time, of gaining it all back....but I had a good start on it. Why is it so hard?
Today was Cinco de Mayo, and our Hispanic parents cooked for us...I ate one bite and tossed mine and ate my measured lunch. We also had cake for Teacher Appreciation week....I left it alone, but I did not want to. I just want to get to the point where my mouth does not water when someone comes in with a plate of cake and offers it to me. Yes, I play mind games...like how much better I feel when I am eating right, or how much better I look, but my mouth still slobers for that piece of cake. I remember as a kid how I loved candy, and I remember thinking that when I got to be an adult I would not want candy because I did not see grown ups eating candy with the passion that I would tear into that GooGoo bar...guess what???? I still love it. But I love life more. So in light of my love of life, I will take my still good health and try to do what I can to stay that way!

God Answers Prayer

2010-05-02T16:08:00.003-05:00

I know not by what methods rare, but this I know-God answers prayer.

I know not when He sends the word, that tells us fervent prayer is heard.

I know it cometh soon or late; Therefore we need to pray and wait.

I know not if the blessing sought, will come in just the way I thought.

I leave my prayers with Him alone, whose will is wiser than my own!

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Thank you all for your prayers. Since Thursday, Addi has been headache free! We had a wonderful day yesterday, and to see her at church this morning was just a blessing. This has been a rough patch and we may face rough patches in the future, but we will just deal with that as it comes. Addi is still a little weak, but that is to be expected. Just to see her smile and hear her giggle is like medicine to me! I cannot even imagine what she has been through. I have had some pain in my life, but nothing that has not passed within a few days...and to think of migraine pain for 105 days just breaks my heart. Now we are going to focus on returning to whatever "normal" is...although there are still some doctor's appointments ahead and adjustment to meds that may be a lifelong thing. We are just, for lack of a better word, thankful to God and everyone.

The Aliens are Trying to Return

2010-04-28T10:04:00.002-05:00

Addi has a headache, again. Please pray. Not as bad, but at an "8" she said. She is on the new meds and Kim said they are knocking her out. Hopefully when she wakes up she will be okay. The relief was short-lived, but hopefully the new meds will help. She also saw the gastro doctor and she is going to have some stomach/gallbladder testing. She had to get up and go to the doctor, and she really wanted to sleep...but appointments are hard to get!

Aliens Have Returned Our Baby

2010-04-27T12:14:00.002-05:00

I told someone that the past 104 days have been like aliens had abducted Addi and replaced her with a sad, sick child. Thankfully, she is back! Just as quick as it came on her, yesterday afternoon the headache went away. She also saw the new neurologist at UAB today, and according to Kim, he seems to be an answered prayer. We know that migraine is not a curable disease, but it is treatable and he said there were so many things that could be done, and it seems he is not afraid to do it, either. He is putting her on a preventative, one she took with no side effects, and he gave her prescriptions for strong medication if she even started to feel a headache. He said she might go long periods of time, and she might never have another episode of this magnitude, but there could very well be other headaches, etc. We will not borrow trouble, and we are thankful that we are pain free at the moment, but we feel such a thankfulness for a doctor and a plan!
To all of you, my thanks and love. We cannot even start to say how much we appreciate the prayers, cards, calls, and expressions of kindness. Keep Addi in your prayers!

Addi Update

2010-04-16T09:36:00.003-05:00

I stated I was not going to post until I had a happy post, but I will do one brief entry. Addi will be going back to Children's at the first of the week for in-house treatment. This will consist of IV treatment, for one thing. She will also be seen by everyone who needs to see her during a consolidated period of time. We do feel better about Birmingham, at least today. If you try something and it does not work, at least you are trying, and that is all we can ask. We are not unrealistic. We know that some things don't work, and we can't fault that...but at least try! This child has suffered. Is she stressed...yes, but as the headache doctor said, stress is not what caused this, but stress is a side-efffect of this situation. About four weeks into this ordeal, the stress did set in, and that may have to be addressed along with the migraine situation. We are also hoping that the gastro doctor will go ahead and rule out any gallbladder issues. As many of you know, we have been plagued with bad gallbladders, and not just gallstones. The more I read, many people suffer with migraine as a side effect of gallbladder issues. So, while this might be an unlikely issue, it needs to be checked. She has an appointment in a week and a 1/2 with the gastro people, but maybe they will get it checked while in-house. So, please pray for Addi and all involved. Pray for her relief and pray that her life will be returned to her so that she can play ball and go to birthday parties and all the fun things she is missing. Also, send her a card if you have not. She looks forward to the mail each day. If you need the address, send me your e-mail and I will send it to you. I don't like posting it online.
Pray!

Hiatus

2010-04-13T14:21:00.002-05:00

Until I can write a happy post, I think I will take a hiatus. I don't want to always be writing a downer post, and lately that is what it has been. Thanks for all the prayers for our precious Addi, and please keep them coming. Also, she likes to get cards so if you have a minute, send her one.

Is anyone listening, anyone?

2010-04-09T13:44:00.002-05:00

Friday of another week and we are still sadly in headache mode. This has been a rough week for Addi. She is on increased meds and new meds. Too much drama for a seven year old who cries to be "normal". Reality is, none of us are normal and this is a bumpy path in her road of life and perhaps it will be the worse thing she ever has to go through. Kim has spent time trying to get an appointment at some of the renowned headache facilities and guess what, if you want to go you have to wait until July. Sounds like we are already enjoying socialized medicine, if you ask me.
Pray for us.

Anyone Need a Movie Extra?

2010-03-29T19:56:00.002-05:00

Is my title misleading...I was just sitting here thinking that for the past almost eleven weeks that it seems as if though I can cry on cue. So, if you need someone for a movie role who can cry on cue, call on me. It is amazing how tears just manage to keep replinishing. Seriously, my heart has been so burdened with my concern for Addi and her pain that it just seems as if though it has over-shadowed anything else. We are so hopeful that the end of the headache is in sight, and tomorrow she sees the neurologist again and we assume there will be an increase in her medication, and we pray that will be the answer. This, my friends, has been a terrible, terrible bad dream and Addi and her Mommy and Daddy and the rest of us are just praying that we will soon be over this and able to once again smile and laugh and enjoy life. Just keep praying with us and hopefully my next post will be a totally happy message.

He hears, I have no doubt!

2010-02-22T12:14:00.001-06:00

Approach, my soul, the mercy seat,

Where Jesus answers prayer;

There humbly fall before His feet,

For none can perish there.
Thy promise is my only plea,

With this I venture nigh;

Thou callest burdened souls to Thee,

And such, O Lord, am I.
Be Thou my Shield and hiding Place,

That, sheltered by Thy side,

I may my fierce accuser face,

And tell him Thou hast died!
O wondrous love! to bleed and die,

To bear the cross and shame,

That guilty sinners, such as I,

Might plead Thy gracious Name.
-by John Newton (author of Amazing Grace)

Addi Update

2010-02-18T11:28:00.002-06:00

Well, as has become the norm...no news. I went with Kim and Addi to see the neurologist this morning. She asked for the history from the beginning, examined Addi, and talked with us. She is also puzzled, pretty much. She did say we had ruled out some bad things, and that neurologically Addi looked fine- now we just have to find what is causing the headache. She said that once she had the kidney ultrasound on Monday and saw the nephrologist (I am not certain on that spelling- the kidney doc) and if he cleared her, she would start her on some medication for the headache. She asked her if she could make it until Monday, and I silently thought about how I hated for her to have hurt one more minute. So, I guess once they rule out any primary condition, they will finally treat the headache. Her blood pressure was back down, although still a high for her. She is really getting anxious about all these doctors, and I can hardly blame her. The pediatrician said stress and pain can cause BP to go up, but not as high as her's has been. She has been a good girl through it all. I guess most of you know that Kim and Paul have decided that in light of the fact that she has missed 5 weeks of school and it is hard to say what is ahead, they have decided to finish the year by homeschooling. Kim has been busy working on getting all of that together this past week and she is going today to get her withdrawn from school. Just keep on praying...we are thankful that some of the bad stuff has been ruled out, but we are still wanting an answer. The doctor said it could be that she would just wake up one morning and be well...we pray for that.

Just Need Your Prayers

2010-02-16T11:39:00.002-06:00

As most of you know, we are facing unknown medical issues with our sweet Addi. This is day 36 of her headache, her blood pressure is up again, and she just has no spunk, for lack of a better word. She has an appointment with the neurologist on Thursday, and with the nephrologist on Monday. The medical field has yet to put their finger on the problem, but the neuro-opthamologist and the pediatrician all seem to be thinking that the pseudotumor cerebri is a misdiagnosis. We do know that her MRI was clean, so that is a relief...apparently though, the headache is symptomatic of some other issue not yet determined. They have taken her off of the medication for the pseudotumor, at the suggestion of the neurologist. The past few weeks have been a circle of doctors visits, and appointments that seem to be far too distant when it is your child. We covet your prayers. Do not take good health for granted...we had it one day and then this journey began the next. Kim and Paul need your prayers, as well. Granna, Gramps, Grammy, PaPa and all the aunts, uncles, and cousins need your prayers. We are confident in the ability of our good and wonderful God, but we also know that we are not immune from troubles and trials. We are thankful for the wonderful support that we have received, and we are praying that the coming days will bring relief and answers and hopefully an easy resolution. I love you all.

What a Start to the New Year

2010-02-05T14:29:00.002-06:00

I guess I have all but forsaken my blog and moved on to Facebook. I do still check everyone's blogs and love to read the updates. As most of you know, we have had a pretty rough start to the new year- Addi and Katie have both been sick, and then today Levi fell and cut his chin (he is still in the ER as I type). My sister, Patsy, has also had surgery. She was a sick cookie, but is on the road to recovery after the removal of a massive ovarian tumor (all is good and benign, thank God). Katie, hopefully, will have some relief week after next when they go back in for the second time to get her big kidney stone. Addi, my sweet Addi, has truly been in terrible pain with what we have just found to be a pseudo tumor. She had a spinal tap yesterday, and today took her third dose of the medication. She looked up at me today and said, "Granna, I am in such pain." Now talk about want to cry for a child, I wanted to cry. I pray the medicine works in a hurry- apparently they can't really give her anything for pain- it must not work for the problem. She is going to go home today, once Levi leaves the ER.
Pray for us- we need it!

Happy New Year!

2010-01-01T14:30:00.003-06:00

Today is the first day of the New Year, and in reflection of the past year, we had a good year in the Courington household. We were blessed with the birth of Jaiden, which was a great highlight of the year. David's parents have had better health, and that has been a blessing. As we head into a new year, I am looking forward to what it holds, and pray that whatever is ahead, that we will face it with the knowlege that God is in control.
As for resolutions...well, let's just say that this is a great time of the year to evaluate things that need to be "worked" on and I will let it go at that.
May each of you have a wonderful year!

Open House 2009

2009-12-14T19:10:00.015-06:00

Each year we have an open house on a Sunday night in December. This has become a "tradition" and we truly enjoy it so much. I thought I would share some pictures. Enjoy!

The Polar Express Rides through Hathcock Drive!

2009-12-12T19:34:00.005-06:00

What fun we had watching the Polar Express with Addi, Levi, Lila, Ian, and Maddie. David made hot chocolate and we poured it into their sippy cups! I love these kids.

Christmas is knocking at the door and we are looking forward to making some wonderful new memories.

2009-11-30T14:21:00.003-06:00

Thanksgiving has come and gone and we certainly enjoyed being with our family. Aunt Marie left yesterday morning, after a 10 day visit. We enjoyed having her and I only hope that life is as much fun for me at 85. We also had the honor of having Paul's parents spend the holidays with us. Charles and Genie got to see Alabama and Auburn fans in action!
There was some sad news over the holidays, as well. Greg Terry, age 41, dropped dead unexpectedly on Thanksgiving morning. We attended the funeral yesterday. I think it might have been the largest funeral I have ever attended. Please remember the Terry family in prayer. Greg was planning to be married on January 9th. He also leaves behind a young daughter that he was raising. He died much too soon- but then again, death has no age restraints.
Also, last night we learned of the death of little Helen Gray. Helen would have been 3 on December 23rd. She was killed in a car accident yesterday as they were returning home to Georgia from a Thanksgiving holiday visit to family. Her mother, Kristy, has a broken back and is in serious condition. The father, Brian, was treated and released. They were rear-ended. Kristy and Brian were college friends of Katie and Jared and Emily. We have known members of the Gray family for years, and we attended school with Brian's aunt. While I do not personally know Brian and Kristy, I follow their blog. It is funny..when you read about people's lives, you feel like you know them. Helen was a little red-head, and things about her made me think of Lila. I just physically ache for this family in their loss. Just from reading the blog, I knew how adored she was. Her grandparents doted on her, as well as the extended family. As her aunt commented on FB, she was the family's bright star. She is now a beautiful angel, but the earthly emotions that her family will have to deal with are going to be painful. Pray for this family.
If you don't know it...I love you all!
Susan

Cutie Pie

2009-11-22T15:41:00.002-06:00

2009-11-19T11:52:00.000-06:00

BLOG RERUN- HOPE YOU ENJOY- AGAIN
Thanksgiving – Dixie Style
I received the following from my sister. It was written by my actress niece, Leslie. Leslie now resides in California- which to tell you truthfully, we all find a bit unusual and exotic for our never venture far from their roots family. My sister and I often comment on how our mother would find great joy and delight in the fact that her couch now resides in Pasadena. Anyway, with the holidays not too far away, please enjoy-

Thanksgiving – Dixie Style

When I was asked to write a blog about my favorite Thanksgiving memory, I was flooded with so many, I had a hard time choosing what to write about. When I was younger, Thanksgiving was a time to hang out with my family and eat great food. I really didn’t think much about the holiday beyond that. I left my hometown of Birmingham, Alabama five years ago to pursue an acting career in Los Angeles, and Thanksgiving certainly carries a lot more weight for me now than it did then. No matter what, I go home for Thanksgiving every year. Now, instead of it being about hanging out with my family, it is about reconnecting with my family. While I used to enjoy eating great food, I now savor aromas and tastes I can only get when I make that 2,000 mile trek home. So many things I used to take for granted about that time of year in the South I don’t anymore: hearing the crunch of leaves underneath my feet, feeling the bristle of wind whip my hair around, watching those long red sunsets through the crisp air. Those are just the moments by myself. After spending the better part of the year alone in my little Los Angelian apartment, it is great to be surrounded by my family: loud, boisterous, welcoming, loving, and always ready to have a good time. In addition to eating all the great food (I’ll get to that in a minute), we spend the evening playing Balderdash and other competitive games like it’s the Olympics, draw names for who we will buy gifts for at Christmas and catch up on what’s going on in everyone’s life. The food, ah, the food. Like any Southern family, we have enough food to feed a small nation. It all tastes good, and it is all bad for you. My very favorite dish is my aunt’s peanut butter pie. When I tell people this, they say, “Oh yeah, I’ve had peanut butter pie” to which I quickly reply, “Oh no you haven’t!” How do I know this? I HAVEN’T SEEN THEM AT ANY OF MY THANKSGIVINGS! My aunt makes the best peanut butter pie ever. I’ve always associated peanut butter pie with Thanksgiving, and now that I travel cross-country to eat it, she makes two for good measure. It may sound silly, but knowing I will get that peanut butter pie the fourth Thursday of every November brings warmth and security to my life. I may not know how successful my acting career will be, but hey, on Thanksgiving I get peanut butter pie. I may be separated from my family for the vast majority of the year, but end of November, I get peanut butter pie. If nobody appreciates my talents and sacrifices, I STILL get peanut butter pie. I have friends who moved to LA from other parts of the country like myself, and many of them talk about how they can’t go home because of the cost of air fare, time off of work, blah, blah, blah. I simply reply, “Well, I have a date in Alabama with a peanut butter pie.” I can’t remember who it was who said the simple things in life bring us the greatest pleasure, but I couldn’t agree more. As you can see, the pie isn’t difficult to make, but I think it is the love instead of the ingredients that make it so great!
From my Aunt Susan:
Ingredients:8 ounces Cream Cheese1 cup Powdered Sugar1/2 cup creamy peanut butter16 ounces Cool Whip1 pre-made graham cracker pie crustDirections:In a large bowl, mix the cream cheese, powdered sugar, peanut butter, and cool whip until well blended. Pour into the pre-made pie crust. Refrigerate. For a more peanut butter taste, use 2/3 cup of creamy peanut butter.Leslie McGuirkPasadena, CA

Jaiden Ashley Courington

2009-10-21T10:22:00.007-05:00

Jaiden Ashley made her entrance on Tuesday, October 20th at 7:16 a.m. She weighed 7 pounds and 14 ounces and was 20 2/3 inches long. She has very dark hair, and lots of it. She also has long eyelashes- as the doctor said- "The eyelashes delivered before she did!" We think she is beautiful. I was so honored to be allowed to attend her birth. What a special moment. Katie made the process look simple, although I know presonally that it isn't! The doctor almost missed the birth, but the nurses seemed to be able to handle the situation (the nurse had already delivered a baby by herself that morning!)- we are glad he did show up, though!
Hannah assured us that "I will not drop her"- meaning, hand her to me and let me walk around, not just sit on this coach and hold her! All of the grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins, and so many friends were there during the day to visit. I know Katie had to be ready for all of us to leave so she could get some rest.
We are thankful to God for the blessing of this sweet baby. We pray that we will do our part to be good and Godly examples. Children are a gift from God and grandchildren are just an added bonus.
Welcome to the loudness, madness, closeness, and love of this family, Miss Jaiden. You are special!!!!

Happy Fall, Y'all!

2009-10-04T15:51:00.004-05:00

Fall has arrived- perhaps my favorite season ever. It is like the gateway to the real holiday season, which I truly love. November and December just have to be the best months, ever! Today is rainy and a bit damp, and I love the feel. The only part I hate is the dry skin I am tortured by once the weather cools down. If I could quit scratching I would enjoy the fall even more.
We have had some great Saturdays with our family watching Auburn and eating! Last night we had ham sandwiches and chips- I baked a butt portion and a spiral cut ham. YUM! We had caramel apple pie from Sam's with ice cream. I tried to be "good" but it is hard. The house is noisy and crazy with our crew- including about 5 other friends- but we love it so much. How sad it would be if the house was quiet!
This week I hope Jaiden makes her appearance. I am so ready for her to be here and to be safe and sound. Jaiden will be a special gift, I know. We are thankful to God that He has blessed Katie and Josh with this little girl and we know that she will be loved so much, as are all the other grandchildren.
Speaking of grandchildren- Addi started her 4th soccer season this week. Her team won 8-0 and Addi scored 2 of those points! We were so excited as those were her first goals. She has really "matured" on the soccer field and is going to do well.
Tuesday will finish up my Cataloging and Classification class for the year. This class takes more time than my other classes because of the detail involved. My students take their final either Monday or Tuesday and then grades will go in and once I hit the submit button, I will be a happy camper. I have spent the past 7 Saturdays grading papers, so I am ready for a break.
On another note, Mary is in the hospital. She was in at the first of the week because her bloodwork was off. She had a biopsy, which basically showed that the liver had extra something or another that probably was related to a drug she had taken. She came home on Wednesday. I actually brought her home from the hospital and she seemed to be okay- just tired. Friday morning she fainted. Then she started running a fever which landed her in the ER- and then admitted again. They think it is a viral thing that about 85% of transplant patients get. It can be treated with medication, so we are hopeful that she will soon be on the road to recovery.
I hope the week will bring great things for all of you. The next time I post I hope to have pictures of one of the five most beautiful newborns, ever!!!!

Happy Day Early Birthday, Josh!

2009-09-05T10:48:00.002-05:00

Tomorrow my "sandwich" child will be 28. Where have the years gone. Happy Birthday, Joshua David! Josh made his entrance on September 6, 1981 at 7:49 a.m. He weighed 10 lbs and 12 ounces- yes, you read that correctly. Then he weighed 34 pounds for like 3 years and was the skinniest little kid around! School was never really Josh's thing, although he did well and despite his telling us that we could save our college money, he completed that milestone, as well. He has always been such a hard worker, even as a teenager. He held some type of job from the time he was about 14 and enjoyed being independent. He has not always been perfect, but he has always worked toward perfection. He is a good husband and father. He loves Katie and Hannah, and works hard to be their provider. He will do the same for baby Jaiden, I know. He does not like to "relax" and says it is a bad word. He never seems to sit still long and at times I know he is tired. He loves the Lord, and that is so evident. He leads beautiful prayers and when he speaks, you can see his heart. As a deacon, he takes his job seriously. He has made us so proud. He always tells us he loves us, and it is not just words, but action. Happy 28th, Josh. May God continue to bless you as you have blessed us!

The Golden Age of Blogging

2009-08-31T13:22:00.002-05:00

Have we all about decided that we do not have time to post anymore? I am finding it harder and harder to keep my blog updated. I keep up with everyone on Facebook, but I still enjoy reading about the day to day activities of my friends and family.
The Couringtons have been busy. The weekend found me grading papers for my university students, preparing food for a Sunday fellowship meal, and on Saturday, we covered the pool. We have never covered this early, but coupled with the very cool nights and the fact that I needed to buy some algaecide (water was a beautiful dark green), we decided that it was not going to be used any more this summer. I guess Global Warming has cooled my pool!
I hope you all have a great week. September is knocking at the door and fall is just around the corner- my favorite season of the year- football, family, fun, chilli, and the beginning of the holiday season.

Happy Birthday, Hannah!

2009-08-23T16:10:00.002-05:00

Today is Hannah's third birthday. How we love her!!! She is such a ball of energy and life. She runs and yells- "GRANNA!" and I usually respond with- "HANNAH!" and then we laugh. She is beautiful, smart, and I can't imagine life without her. She is a busy bee and such a social butterfly. We love you Hannah Elizabeth, and don't ever forget that!!!!

Could this be my 6 year old granddaughter?

2009-08-19T18:32:00.001-05:00

Addi ready for the Jonas Brothers! Cool girl!!!

Back on Track

2009-08-16T08:36:00.005-05:00

The past several months I have struggled with staying focused on my "diet". The summer was not kind to me, with camp (yes, most of us gain weight eating 3 full meals each day, including dessert at two of those meals and hot buttered yeast rolls daily!), then vacation, etc. Happily I have not had a complete backslide, but I had slipped into the next 10 pounds of numbers (the upper end of the next 10 pound range!)- somewhere I did not want to go. I have managed to shed several of those pounds in the past couple of weeks, but it will probably be another 3 weeks before I get back to my "low"- of course my "low" was a weight I was at one day! I have not abandoned ship and I think this is the longest period of time I have successfully kept off a large amount of weight before regaining all of it, so for that I am thankful. My motivation is still high and I am going to win this battle! I have so much that I need to be healthy for- but most importantly for myself. So, say an extra prayer for me that I can withstand the evil forces of food (well, of the wrong choices and quantity in food), and continue to see the scales head south!

School Days

2009-08-06T18:20:00.004-05:00

Tomorrow the children of Wilkerson Middle School will return. The 6th graders will try to be brave, but they will be afraid, for the most part. The 7th and 8th graders will come in excited to see one another and for a while, all of us! The 8th graders will be the "seniors" and they will certainly let the 6th and 7th graders know it. I will have to use sign language to help with the Hispanic parents and children. Watching these children learn English is exciting, and they are very sweet and respectful children. Yes, tomorrow will be a good day. By the way- that is my library. The architects that remodeled the school several years ago made these pics.

Catching Up

2009-07-25T21:07:00.005-05:00

A lot has gone on since I last blogged. We made a trip to the Gulf and had a really nice time. Billy and Mary went with us for 1/2 of the week (Mary actually stayed the entire week) and Marty and Susan came down for the second half of the week. We stayed on water that emptied into the bay and it was really a nice place. We ate some great seafood, shopped, slept a little late and stayed up late. We ate too much and I hate to report that the camp pounds that I had just lost returned! I still have about 2 pounds to get rid of from vacation and then a few more that had crept back on. Hopefully in a few weeks I will be back at my low. It can come back so quick, for certain. In other news, school is right around the corner if you need reminding. I had fun shopping for Addi some school clothes while on vacation. I found some pretty good deals on some things for all the kids. I wish I had as much luck for myself. I have picked up a thing or two, but just not finding anything much that really rocks my boat.
It is hard to believe but Miss Jaiden will be making her entrance before long. We are looking forward to another beautiful grandbaby. If all goes as planned, when she arrives we will have 5 grandchildren ages 6 and younger! I think we are going to get the "bulk" of our grandchildren in a short time span. I am thankful that they will have the opportunity to be close in age and enjoy growing up together. Perhaps the next 5 will all come in a 6 year span, as well!
We are looking forward to being back at Sylvan Springs in the morning. We have been gone a couple of weeks and we have missed everyone.
I am looking forward to bed- I have clean sheets! Is that not the greatest feeling to climb into your bed and the sheets are so clean and fresh. If it were not so much trouble, I would change them everyday.
I am going to post a few vacation pics to share- enjoy!

Publix Mini Trip

2009-07-05T16:32:00.002-05:00

I just made a Publix mini-trip. I spent 26.80 and saved 72.88. Did I buy things that I did not need- no, just perhaps bought them before I might have. What did you get, you might ask (the photo makes it hard to see)-

3 Bic Lighters

4 Cool Whips

6 Publix Soft Drinks

1 Publix Gallon Ice Tea

4- 75 ft. Reynold's Aluminum Foil

2 Large Packs Lays Chips

1 Bag Tortillia Chips (penny item)

4 cartons of sour cream

1 bag of M & M's

6 cans of baked beans

1 Bottle of A-1 sauce

1 Bottle of Kraft Salad dressing

1 Jar of Kraft Mayo

1 Box of Kellogg's Blueberry Cereal

1 Box of Bagel-fuls

2 very small Hagan Daz Ice Creams

Pretty good, I think!

Thrifty Granna

2009-07-02T12:14:00.006-05:00

Yesterday we had to go get our eyes checked (glad I did- I had an eye lid infection) so once we were through I told David I wanted to go to Burkes. For those who are Burkes shoppers, you know that the "Dots" change on the 1st day of the month. Wow- I got some great deals. I had 29 items and spent $17.00. I got Paul 4 pair of khaki pants, Josh 2 pair of pants and about 8 shirts (not certain on the number), and also bought some other shirts for friends. I had a pair of black dress pants and got Kim a pair of brown dress pants. We also bought books, I-Pod speakers, a 4th of July plaque and several other items. Everything I bought was 95% off. Great day at Burkes. Oh yes, one of the 65 cent jackets had a coupon for a free years subscription to Field and Stream ($10.00 value) so I sent it in Casey, because Josh and David both get the magazine already.

I also had a great Publix week. I saved $99.45! I spent about $44.00. I am working on my trip for next week, although it is going to be a "mini- trip".

Happy Anniversary to Daniel and Mandi. It is hard to believe that it has been 4 years- but it has. They are enjoying a brief trip to Gatlinburg but will be with us on the 4th.

Have a great 4th!

Facebook Campisms

2009-06-27T14:23:00.003-05:00

As I have been mindlessly spending too much time on Facebook today (in reality- I am tired and don't want to do anything- our air is still not working correctly and I am tired from camp) I started reading all the camp comments. What a great week we have just returned from. Unless you have ICYC in your blood, these comments are hard to understand. I also want to thank my great kitchen helpers- Sally, Donna, Mia, Phyllis, Kent and Mary. What would I do without all of you. What fun we have- even though we don't get out of the kitchen much, we truly get to enjoy the kids and all the fun from our side of the serving line.
Enjoy some of the Facebook comments I have copied and pasted below-

Alex Courington What a wonderful week of camp i just returned from! Definitely one of the top 5 weeks ever! Sadly we had to come home :( I can't wait to go back next year! Camp this year definitely assured me of what i wanted to do with my life!

Kim Kelsey I'm not ready for camp to end!! But I'm pretty tired!

Paul Kelsey Enjoying camp!

Phyllis Garrison
I am back from camp and had a great time. Did not want to come home from ICYC. Well I have started washing clothes now and boy do I have a lot to wash. Alissa and Allison had a great time the sang all the way home and talk about camp.

Tyler Sanford at 5:36pm June 26
it was greeeeeeeat,

Sydney Maddox
had the time of my life at camp :] and finally found my happiness :]]]

Jasmine Courington is depressed...I can't believe I'm not waking up at camp this morning...growing up is so hard...=(

Daniel Courington at 8:20am June 22
I could not agree more.

Josh Courington Just got home from cutting grass, and a week full of camp fun. I really enjoyed my time this week at camp , but missed my family. I want to give a big thanks to all the young men in my cabin for acting so well. I look forward to next year!

David Courington
We had a great week of camp at ICYC. There was tons of fun, great fellowship, and best of all several came back to Christ and 5 were baptized. Only time and eternity will tell how much good may have been done. More than 30 years ago a group of teens(including me) went on a mission trip. Today, 2 young boys who were bapt. by us have brought many to Christ and are faithful. We give God thanks and all the glory.2 hours ago

Jared Sanders
Yea I am tired from camp really sore and may have suffered a brain injury but it was worth it. As you all know I have plenty of brain to spare. Thanks to all whom I shared the week with for making it great one.14 hours ago

Okay...maybe this is a bargain blog!

2009-06-18T18:12:00.008-05:00

I had a nice day today. David had work to do and other fish to fry, so I headed to the thrift store. I did not have much luck there so I headed to Burkes. I needed a few pair of capri pants and luckily found 2 pairs- one at the regular price (9.99) and the other pair- woo hoo- 65 cents! Last week we bought David 2 new pair of dress slacks at Burkes- 75 cents a pair!!! Then I headed to Ross where I bought a new shirt for 49 cents. It is a bit small, but I was not going to leave it hanging for 49 cents! It will be incentive for me to continue on the diet path. See pictures above.

Now let me tell you about Publix. I will post the picture from I madethis week. I made a "mini" trip this weeek, just to use the coupons that I had for the good deals. Since we are going to be at camp this next week and since I had already made a run on Monday, I just picked up a few things. I bought 3 drinks that were not on sale (79 cents each) and the rest of the order was coupon deals. I spent $11.26, including the drinks, and saved $42.52. The bigger order from the first of the week was $37.56 with a savings of $57.61. What fun!!!!!

It is HOT!

2009-06-17T18:03:00.004-05:00

Just in case you haven't noticed...it is hot! According to the long-range forecast, the weather should be somewhat milder next week, which for those of us headed to ICYC is good news.
We had a great youth devotional at the house last night. Good fun, good food, and good fellowship. I think we had about 30 in attendance. The kids also had a good time in the pool, which considering how hot it was in the house, I am certain that they enjoyed it. I had the oven on for some time and despite the efforts of our air unit, it could not overcome the oven and the crowd. I told everyone that I was prepping them for camp!
David is now the proud owner of a golf cart- one of his long-time desires. He will use it at camp and around the Couringtonosa. I have dubbed it the "Grampsmobile."
I hope all my friends and family are staying cool.

Blog Challenge

2009-06-11T10:38:00.002-05:00

As I looked at my Blog Roll, I decided to issue a challenge. Some of you have not updated in weeks or months. I know that I have not done the best myself, and part of that is because I have spent part of my computer time on Facebook. Come on guys- at least post a picture, or something!
I am enjoying summer. I have had a few days to simply stay at home, and I have found plenty to do. I wish I could say that my house was clean and all of my chores accomplished, but I have at least made some headway on the laundry. I am teaching some this summer, but my classes are much smaller than they have been for the past summers so I am not having to spend a lot of time grading papers. While the check will be much smaller, I am getting a break.
It appears that I am not going to be making a school move come August. For those who may not know, my principal had been offered a new position but she told the board that she would not go without taking some of her "people"- and that included me. We all struggled with the decision and we were content with the current situation, but scared of who might take the reigns if she transferred. Apparently she had a larger list of demands than the board wanted to meet because they hired someone else. They had reposted the job twice in an effort to get her to apply, which she finally did. After the interview she basically told them that they probably did not want her to take the position because she was going to demand accountability from the faculty and staff at the school (this is a large high school, lots of problems) and if they wanted her to "straighten" the situation out, they were going to have to support her and allow her to take the people with her that she would need. She must have been correct because they gave the job to an outsider. I am actually relieved. I know that she needed the high school position if she was ever going to have the opportunity to advance to a superintendent's position. The difference in pay at a high school for a principal is marginal, and the responsibilities are doubled, but it is a necessity if you want to move up within our insane system. The thought of packing up almost 20 years of personal belongings had about made me cringe. I had decided to go if she got the position, but fortunately the decision was made for us so I am glad to stay where my heart and my stuff is already neatly organized!
We are planning a small trip tomorrow. We are going to the Diana Singing tomorrow night and plan to spend the night in Athens. We are going to do a little shopping on Saturday, so that will be fun. The Penney's Outlet in Decatur and some great bent and dent stops- how could life be better.
Have a great day, and remember my challenge- UPDATE YOUR BLOG!

Another Great Day at Publix

2009-06-08T14:37:00.002-05:00

Okay, this is not going to become a coupon blog, but since I have had some summer time/down time, I have jumped on the coupon wagon again. Today I spent $23.97 and saved $77.24! What did I get for all that-

4 Maxwell House Coffees

1 Box Ritz Crackers

1 Box Specialty Crackers

2 Bottles of Ketchup

2 Cans of Pineapple

4 Cans of Carnation milk

2 Large Bottles of Worchestershire Sauce

1 Small Jar of Mayonnaise

2 Boxes of South Beach Granola/Fiber Bars

2 Toll House Cookies (Refrigerated type- Don't need these, but a great buy)

1 Bag of Hostess Donuts (Yes, I know- I DON"T need these!)

2 Boxes of Kashi Waffles

2 Cartons of Smart Balance Lite Spread

2 Big Boxes of Raisin Bran Cereal

1 Bag of Croutons

1 Package of Cheese Singles

2 Large Tubes of Aquafresh Toothpaste

2 Bags of Kraft Shredded Cheese

4 Boxes of Luxianne Tea Bags

1 Loaf of Refrigerated Coles Garlic Bread

Hey, did I do good, or what????

Touching Moments and Publix

2009-05-31T08:24:00.004-05:00

This past week there were three particularly touching moments in my life. Of course first would have to be going to the ultrasound to see new baby girl Courington posing for the camera. All appears to be well and she waved hello to us. We are thrilled to have a new granddaughter. You know whether a boy or a girl, to see that perfect little spine, hands, fingers and toes, that is the important thing.
This past week, of course, was the end of the school year. As with most schools, we have honors and awards day. Our 8th grade class, which is our "senior" class, has a particularly grand ceremony. We had about 4 8th graders who took most of the academic honors, 3 girls and 1 boy. As the young man continually made his way across the stage to receive plaques and trophies, I could not help but to think of the day that his mother came to enroll him. She came in the gym door where we were letting the children in one morning, and she had her 2 sons and little daughter with her. She had tears in her eyes. I was standing with the principal and she came up with her family. She looked at my principal and said- "Would you take my children in your school? We are homeless and living in our car. They are smart children and will not cause you any problems." Of course we took the 2 oldest, who were 6th and 7th graders. The mother might not have known, but a school has to accept homeless children without address checks or proof of residence. The mother stated that she just wanted her children to have a chance at a good school. The family has since secured housing and the mother, who is obviously not a deadbeat but someone who fell on hard times, has a job. The boys have done well- both are in the gifted program and the 8th grader truly made his mom proud this week. He motivated me to do better by his example of overcoming hardship to excel.
The third moment came on Friday, which was my last day of school. Several of the teachers were in the library, which at my school is the place to be. The teacher's lounge is seldom used as most of my teachers spend their breaks in the media center working on plans, visiting, etc. One of my co-workers, a guy that I have worked with for about 15 years, had his 2 children with him. He has a son who is going into 6th grade and a daughter going into 2nd grade. This year has been tough on him as his wife left him. They gave the appearance of being a perfect family. They spent a lot of time together, they traveled, spent time with the kids at sports, etc. He was blindsided when she told him she was leaving, but that is a long story. She has primary custody of the kids, and he has them for his designated times and some of her time as she is apparently out partying. He would take them full-time, but the courts, well that is a story for another time, although I think they tend to side with mothers, even if they are sorry! Anyway, the little girl was sitting in one of my desk chairs and we were loading the laminating machine. We were laughing and having a good time when we heard this pitiful little voice say-
"Daddy, do you miss me?" Then the tears started to flow. My co-worker grabbed her up and hugged her and told her that he missed her every day, but that today they were going to have a lot of fun together. She had her little arms wrapped so tight around his neck, the message being don't let me go!" I was so touched and at the same time so mad at her mother for being so selfish- for wanting to "find myself" (that is her quote, not mine). Of course "finding myself" has included the partying and new boyfriends. Her little sweet voice and those tears have tugged at my heartstrings all weekend. We are living in a nation of little girls and boys who have selfish parents. We need to pray that this generation can overcome their upbringing!

On another note, I hit the Publix today and I DONE GOOD! I spent 31.45 for all that you see above- saved $98.44!!! Even the cashier was impressed. It is really hard on a picture to see what all I got, but I had 4 bags of dog food (I made money on these), 2 cartons of Blue Bell, Crystal Light, Electrasol, Spray-n-Wash, etc. I had to buy hotdog buns for VBS tonight, and they were out of their brand so I bought the next cheapest which to me was not cheap- $4.00 for 2 packs. If you took that from my 31.45 I would have only spent less than 28.00! The only thing I did not have coupons for were my steam fresh veggies- which were on for 1/2 price. I had some coupons on them, but they expired yesterday. We really love those- they are quick, simple to fix and taste great. I left Publix on a high- if that makes sense.

Coupon Savings

2009-05-26T21:10:00.002-05:00

All this for $33.00! I saved almost $80.00. I had one gallon of tea not shown and the only thing I paid full price for was the hamburger buns (99 cents). Thanks Katie and Chicks With Cents http://www.chickswithcents.com/)(for reminding me of how much fun this can be.

Feeling Blessed

2009-05-23T12:24:00.004-05:00

Today is one of those days when I am enjoying life. It is one of those days that I feel very blessed. Do you ever have days like that- days that seem to make you realize how fortunate you are? I went to fix myself a sandwich for lunch- and my cabinets are not just full- they are overflowing. I started the laundry and the laundry pile is not just a mound, but a mountain- meaning we have more than plenty of things to wear. I looked outside and it was sprinkling rain, but I was dry. I am still employed- with 2 jobs-how blessed is that???? I know there are others around me who have lost their jobs, and I am going to designate this week as a week of prayer for those people. Will you join me? I am going to make an effort to pray daily that these wonderful people will find employment and that the country's economy will start to improve. Life is good and I am thankful.

Goat Extravaganza

2009-05-19T08:47:00.002-05:00

Well, if you follow David or me on Facebook, then you know that we are now the proud owners of 2 cute little baby goats, Leslie and Sally. Leslie is solid white and she is part milk goat. Sally is brown and white and a little bigger than Leslie. David has long wanted some goats. It seems like for as long as we have been married (over 32 years) he has talked about getting some goats. We have 9 acres of land, and most of it is covered by brush and weeds, so they will have plenty to keep them busy. David basically fences in about 1/2 of an acre to let them eat it and then he will move the fence. It has been a big operation, more than expected. David had to build them a shelter, as well. Then when we got them in the fence on yesterday, out they came! The fence was supposed to have a good charge but we discovered that the charger had gone bad. We chased the goats around the neighborhood and finally our neighbor James came out and helped us. We cornered them and got them back in the fence and then David just sat down on a bucket and watched them to keep them in the fence. Then James and Josh came and helped, as well. That is when they discovered the charger (brand new) was bad. James keeps his dogs in an electric fence and by chance he had a new extra charger. They put it on the fence and I am happy to report that the goats have remained intact! They were standing looking at me this morning when I left for work. They are really cute. We were afraid that Bandit would bark all night, but he didn't. Oh the joys of goat ownership! I am certain David will have to Blog about this, so stay tuned!

Mt. Levi

2009-05-18T14:06:00.001-05:00

Fun

2009-05-17T16:20:00.005-05:00

Found this neat site- try it out.

http://www.photofunia.com/

I am on my new laptop and do not have any photos saved, so I used some from prior entries.

Mother's Day Thoughts

2009-05-09T10:23:00.002-05:00

Tomorrow is Mother's Day. I feel so fortunate to be a mother to three great kids. They have made me so proud and as I have said many times, I can't imagine my life without them. It has been an honor to be their mother.
I am also thinking of my mother-in-law today. What a special person. She has been through so much in her life and yet her strength continues to be evident. She has loved me as her own and in over 32 years, we have never had one harsh word between us. She is indeed worthy of honor, every day. I have to also commend my dear husband. The past several years he has had to devote a lot of time and energy to the care of his aging and sick parents. He has truly been an excellent caretaker to the matters that they are no longer able to handle. His love for his parents is just testimony to their love for him.
This is also the day I think of my own mother. I miss her every day. I think of her in some way, every day. I long to hear her voice, every day. I have things I want to share with her, every day. I am thankful for her, every day. Her love to her children and family was so evident. She, herself, knew the feeling of loss at losing her own mother and she knew that we would feel that same pain and she so wanted to spare us those emotions. Yet most people, given normal circumstances, live to the point where they lose their parents. I understand her feelings now. I so miss her and I understand that she missed her own mother in the same way. God blessed us with a wonderful mother, and today when I think of her I am going to say a special prayer of thankfulness to God for her life and her love. I love you, Mother.

Levism

2009-05-04T17:23:00.001-05:00

Levi stayed with me today while Kim carried Lila to the doctor. He had a good time at my school. Of course everyone doted on him, which made him feel pretty special. He was so good, in fact, that my co-workers declared that he could not get into all the mischief that we tell about. Of course he was only there about 3 hours! On the way home this is the conversation:
Levi: "Granna, where did you get Gramps?"
Granna: "What do you mean, Levi?"
Levi: " I mean did he come from the Gramps store?"
Granna: (Laughing) "Well, I guess so, Levi!"
Levi: "Well, then you came from the Granna store!"

What a boy!

Side Bar Breakdown!

2009-05-03T08:47:00.002-05:00

When I set up my side bar where it would display the time that one of the blogs updated, it worked pretty well. I have noted lately that it is no longer accurate. It might show that someone updated one day ago and it has been 3 months! Does anyone else have this feature, and if so, how does yours work?

Yes, Paul...I agree about the lack of blogging

2009-04-22T12:06:00.004-05:00

Paul posted that he thought many of his bloggers were no longer blogging with regularity. I don't know what is wrong with me, but I am among that number. I guess I have not had too much to blog about, but I will post a brief blog.
This Saturday is the Bargain Carousel at the old Belk's in Century Plaza. Kim, Katie, Mandi and myself plan to go. Last year we had a ball. After we shopped until my huge garbage can was full, we went to IHOP. I guess we will do the same this year. We found super buys on kid's clothes and many still had tags.
This Friday night is the annual Walkfest for Indian Creek Youth Camp. I am working with registration. We hope to raise a lot of money. The camp suffered a good bit of damage during the recent "gravity wave", with the Hilltop Cabin having a huge tree come through the roof causing some major damage.
Kim had to have a spot removed from her face today. The doctor said she could not say anything until she had the biopsy (2 weeks from now). While it is hard to believe that it is anything other than a mole, please remember to say an extra prayer that it is just a mole. The spot has been there for years but has developed a black spot in it recently. It does not have any of the typical characteristics of skin cancer that you read about, other than that little tiny dark spot, so hopefully it will not be anything serious. It is hard to have to wait 2 weeks on knowing something, but that is as soon as they will have the results. As a mother, regardless of how old your kids are, you don't want them to have any health issues.
Addi has been fighting bronchitis. She has had a shot and medicine, but is still sick. She has an appointment with her regular doctor tomorrow, so we pray she is soon feeling better. The doctor she saw the other day said she almost had pneumonia, so she has really been feeling pretty rotten. She went to school on Monday but checked out and has not been back.
I love you all-

Take Me Out to the Ballgame!

2009-04-07T12:59:00.002-05:00

We had the great fun of sitting in the cold to watch Addi play her first ballgame of the season. Hard to believe, but at 6 she is an old pro. This is her third year to play. She has moved, for the most part, to the pitcher’s circle- the coveted place in Sweetie’s play (see photo-thanks, Paul!). She came to bat 3 times last night, with 3 hits. I am not certain of all of the logistics on that, but I think they were doubles. At this level they play coach pitch- and her coach is still learning how to pitch- so to go 3 for 3 is pretty good. She has sped up to the point that if a 4 year old had not been in front of her, she might have had a triple or two. Truth be told- she looked so determined to make a homerun that she just was not going to stop until they told her too!
It is just great fun to be at the ballpark. I never dreaded going to the park with my own kids- that was always just a great time as a family. I hear some people complain about having to go the ballpark and I think about how much I miss it. When all our kids played we would have a minimum of 6 practices a week and anywhere from 6 to 9 games once the season began. I can remember standing between the girl’s field and the boy’s field to watch when Kim and Josh or Daniel would be pitching. As far as I know, I never missed more than just a few games of park ball- and that was if I was out of town. We used to joke about putting up a mailbox at the ballpark. David coached several years, and that would add to the complexity of ballpark life. I was also the team mom several years, often because no one else would do it- how sad. I hope my kids remember these fun times. I think they will.

Weighty Update

2009-04-02T14:05:00.001-05:00

I haven’t blogged much about weight loss lately, in part because I have been on a seesaw. I am happy to report that I am once again seeing the scales move down a little. My resolve is strong, so that helps. I edged up a few pounds since the first of the year, actually I have gained and lost the same 5 pounds for a number of weeks, pretty much just leaving me at a standstill. I have not had a point where I completely abandoned ship, but a few days I let my feet get wet! It is funny, but I had a few meals where I overate, but never 2 meals in a row. This past weekend I ate too much junk, but I have managed to get my head straight. I am still in my smallest clothes, and if nothing happens, this time next week I should be at a new all time low for this round of “The Days of Susan’s Weight Loss Adventures.” This will never be easy, but I have made some changes that seem to have taken hold. I have not had a real candy bar in 16 months! I have had one Big Mac in the past 16 months, and I counted that in my daily points. While I am not still counting points, I know when I have gone over. I have had one glass of sweet tea- and that was by mistake (the waitress gave me sweet instead of unsweet and once I took a sip I thought- Hey it is just one glass!), I have not had a regular soda, etc. So, hopefully, some life-changes have taken hold. I have dropped to a jeans size that is almost easy to find- but I have much more to shed before I could be considered “normal”! As a matter of fact, I am still “obese”, just not “morbidly Obese”!!! I appreciate all the kind remarks that I have received- it does help! On another note- David is still in the battle with me, and is doing great!

Marley, he ain't!

2009-03-27T13:37:00.001-05:00

I know the Bible tells us to love our neighbor- does that include their dog? Our “neighbors” have recently acquired a pit bull. It is red and ugly. I don’t care what anyone says- they should be outlawed. I have a friend at work and she declares it is how they are raised- I declare it is inbred! The problem with this dog is the fence it is in. To think that the fence is going to hold this dog once it gets a little older, is a joke. The fence is basically just out of some type of roll fencing (about 3 feet high) and at places there are big gaps. We have neighbors with small children, and I worry about them. Their dad told David that he was keeping an eye on them and the dog. They should be able to play outside without worrying about the stupid dog. I don’t really have any reason to approach them about the dog- yet. The problem is that the “yet” might be after the dog does damage. Most of you know what type of people have these dogs- and if you are thinking of the typical stereotype, then you are so correct!

Grandparents Day, Spring Break, Baby Courington, and Ball Season!

2009-03-14T22:01:00.007-05:00

I have been a delinquent blogger, once again. I guess I have been staying on Facebook too much! I have also noted that my blogger buds are not blogging as much, either. I am a little disappointed in the way the update is working on my blog. At first it seemed to be really accurate, and then I would check on someone's blog and they would have updated but the sidebar would not show they had. So for those who are depending on my update list, you might want to check the blog instead (did all of that make any sense?).

On to my update- well, I don't think I will update- just start where I am. We had the honor of attending Grandparents Day at Addi's school. I will note that I was the youngest looking grandmother there and David was the youngest looking grandpa! Now if you believe that, I have some AIG stock I will sell you at a good price. All kidding aside, Addi was proud we were there. She was so excited to see us, like she had not seen us in forever. I am going to post some pics so that you can enjoy (you will note that getting a pic of Addi with open eyes is hard!).

In other news, Baby Courington seems to be doing well. I know that Josh and Katie are still in that "anxious" mode, but I think things seem to be on target. I know that the next doctor's visit will help to ease their minds. I have started to look at baby things again, and doing so made me realize that we really need a new baby. Lila is now 17 months old and she seems like a big girl. She is talking very well for her age. The other day she told Hannah. "That's a big mess!" in response to Hannah dropping ice cream at McDonald's.

Kim and family will be in Oklahoma this week. We have to share with the other grandparents, but just knowing they are gone makes me miss them. We are looking forward to ball season. Scouting reports indicate that Addi is cracking the bat and fielding well. She is already a good ball player and I know this year, being her last in this league, will be great. Gramps will have to load up on bandaids, as she seems to go through them at a high rate of speed once ball starts.

Spring break is here and if all goes well, David and I plan to go to Nashville and then on to Louisville, Kentucky. We are going to the Grand Ole Opry and then to 2 separate Blue Grass events in Louisville. We have never been there before, so that should be fun. If anyone knows anything exciting to do in Louisville, send me a note.

Here's to a great week for all my friends and family.

Busy Monday

2009-02-23T19:11:00.003-06:00

What a busy Monday! I was out of town this past week at a conference in San Antonio and coming back to the real world has been too busy for me. In case any of you are wondering- America's children are being educated by a bunch of drunks (just thought I would throw in that observation from my personal experience of watching central office personnel, superintendents, and "higher-ups" for the past 4 days!). I am now happily sitting in my recliner, with a fire burning in the fireplace, watching Little People- what a wonderful end to a busy day. We were scheduled to have our book club meeting tonight, but it was postponed because Kim had sick kids, and because Jasmine was not feeling well. Our book this month was The Secret Life of Bees. I don't know what our next title will be but I am already looking forward to it. Tomorrow looks to be no better than today- I have 2 parent meetings, one at 9 and another at 1- and between that we are doing the state writing test (also at 9- I hope to have all materials distributed before parents arrive- I had scheduled the meetings before I realized it was testing day. I did not want to reschedule.) Then I have to return the testing materials to the testing center, and go back for another meeting. Well, at least Friday is payday! I am also thankful for a job in these times. I hope everyone has a great week. Perhaps my next post will be more "exciting"- wait, every time I say that the "excitement" is not usually what I want, so maybe my next post will be more "enlightening!"

Thoughts of Mother

2009-02-15T23:14:00.003-06:00

Those we love don't go away,

They walk beside us every day,

Unseen, unheard, but always near,

Still loved, still missed and very dear.
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As I write this entry, my Mother's birthday is in just a few minutes (February 16). Were she still with us she would be 97 years old. Although almost 11 years have past since I last held her hand in mine, some things never change. My desire to hear her voice, even in my head. My desire to see her sweet face and beautiful blue eyes, even if just in a photo. My desire to share a moment, a thought, the type of things that you tell your mother- those feelings never seem to diminish, even with years. My yearning to just be with her and to know that she is there- those feelings, still with me. Will these feelings ever cease to be- I hope and pray, not. For these feelings are my connection with my Mother. I thank God every night for my Mother, till this day. I think that will always be my prayer.

Pop Tarts

2009-02-09T19:42:00.003-06:00

Okay...now that I have you wondering, I will have to confess that I am hooked on Hot Fudge Sundae Pop Tarts! I have them every work day at about 9:30. Maybe not the most nutritious or fiber high breakfast, but it works for me. I am holding my own, but that is about it...holding my own. I guess I need to give up the HFS Pop Tarts to get the scales moving! I am not a huge Pop Tart fan, but these things....WOW. If you haven't tried them, you need to!

The World is Mine

2009-02-04T17:51:00.004-06:00

We have just returned from a great trip to the lectureship. I want you to read this poem and then see my comments at the end. I had a "Thankful Tuesday!"

The World is Mine
Today upon a bus I saw a girl with golden hair;She seemed so gay, I envied her, and wished that I were half so fair;I watched her as she rose to leave, and saw her hobble down the aisle.She had one leg and wore a crutch, but as she passed--a smile.Oh, God, forgive me when I whine;I have two legs—the world is mine.
Later on I bought some sweets. The boy who sold them had such charm,I thought I'd stop and talk awhile. If I were late, t'would do no harm.And as we talked he said, "Thank you, sir, you've really been so kind.It's nice to talk to folks like you because, you see, I'm blind".Oh, God, forgive me when I whine;I have two eyes—the world is mine.
Later, walking down the street, I met a boy with eyes so blue.But he stood and watched the others play; it seemed he knew not what to do.I paused, and then I said, "Why don't you join the others, dear?"But he looked straight ahead without a word, and then I knew, he couldn't hear.Oh, God, forgive me when I whine;I have two ears—the world is mine.
Two legs to take me where I go,Two eyes to see the sunset's glow,Two ears to hear all I should know,Oh, God, forgive me when I whine;I'm blest, indeed, the world is mine.

On Tuesday I made a trip to Jackson to check out some of the stores that I like to hit up when I go to Jackson. I needed some new shoes so I made a quick stop at Payless. I noted a family in the store, a mom, dad, and 2 sons who looked to be about 10 and 14. Being a teacher, I thought it strange that the kids were not in school, but let it go at that. I did note they were so quiet and the woman looked like she was in another world. They finished their transaction, and when I heard the clerk say the bill was something like $125.00, I thought that was a lot to spend in Payless. The family left and the girl came over to see if I needed help. She told me, "I am so shook up." I asked what was wrong and she said the family that just left was getting ready to bury their 16 year old son who had died as the results of an accident on the family farm. I later heard more about the story from the ladies in Dollar General in Henderson (small town talk, I guess). Apparently the father and son were in an "argument" about the use of the seat belt, and the boy told the dad that he would just jump out of the truck- and he did. He hit his head on a rock, and later died of heart failure after brain surgery. I was feeling so bad for the family. About that time the dad came back in to pick up a belt, and I walked out. As I did I looked at the mother sitting in the truck outside the door, and I have never seen such anguish on a face. I have my children, the world is mine!

When I returned to the lectureship, David and I were walking to the auditorium. Approaching us was a man, with no lower half of his body. He had an apparatus on his hands that he was walking on. Yet he was smiling and seemed to be enjoying being at the lectureship. Every "Step" he took involved him using his hands to pull his body along. I have my legs, the world is mine!

We attended a lecture where "I believe in the One they call Jesus" was led by a man led to the podium by another man, because he was blind. He used a Braille song book and led the song in a wonderful manner. I have two eyes, the world is mine!

We went to supper with our sons and daughter in laws. We were in one booth and they were in another (at the wonderful Bell's Diner!!). David started to tell me about visiting with an old friend, a precious couple that we had attended college with at Faulkner and Freed. David told me that our friend had confided in him about their 27 year old daughter, and her addiction to crystal meth, her having been in jail, and now going into a rehab program. As David is telling me the story, I am looking at the booth where my boys are sitting and both of them have their heads bowed in prayer. Thank you God, the world is mine!

Book Club and Laundry Detergent

2009-01-27T11:42:00.002-06:00

We had an enjoyable evening at our first book club meeting. We don’t really have a name for our “group” so I guess we are just the “Book Club”. Ian wanted to know why Jennifer was going to the “Club” last night! How funny.
Our next book is “The Secret Life of Bees”. If you are reading this, then you might want to join us for our next meeting on February 23rd. On another note- I had such as great time with the young girls last night. I always enjoy being around younger women- it gives me hope for the future! I am also excited that Mary is doing so well and was able to host the book club. We had good food and great fun talking, laughing, and enjoying some girl time. We started discussing saving money, and our conversation got around to the Duggar family and how they make their own laundry detergent. So today I got online and read up on making your own laundry detergent- it is not hard at all and it makes the cost of a load of laundry to be about a penny. Comparison studies likens the cleaning power to Tide. I am going to see if I can find the ingredients- the only thing hard to find is Arm and Hammer Washing Soda (not baking soda) according to the online information. I thought if some of us wanted to, we might use the church kitchen one night and have a laundry detergent making session. Anyone interested?

Happy Early Birthday, Levi!

2009-01-19T11:25:00.002-06:00

I know it is a day early, but I am home at the computer so I thought I would send Levi my birthday wishes while I had a minute.

Where do I start- Levi is my only grandson. He is beautiful, smart, energized, and one of a kind. His birth, following Addi's, was such a calm event and I can hardly believe that it has been 4 years. I can't wait to see what the future holds for Levi. I feel honored that he thinks I can save him from getting spankings and in trouble! While I certainly know that he can be a bit "challenging" at times, I also know that sweet side that gets excited when he hasn't seen someone in a couple of hours, the arms that come running to be picked up (yes, and he is getting heavy) when he sees you, the knock down hugs he bestows on special cousin Hannah at church, the way he loves his Mommy and Daddy, Addi and especially cares for Lila in such a sweet way, and his joy when Sponge Bob is on and he can get on Granna's bed. Levi, you are such a special part of my heart and I love you!

Lazy Blogger

2009-01-17T18:45:00.002-06:00

I am not certain why I have been a Lazy Blogger, but I have. Let's see if I can catch up a little. Hey, wait- I will bullet!

I signed up for Scale Back Alabama with my team members David, Kim, and Paul. We had to come up with a name and it is kind of dumb- The Power Losers. I hope I can be a power loser because my power losing has been pretty pitiful lately. Surely I can lose 10 pounds in 10 weeks. I don't want to let my team down.
We went to see Celine on Thursday night. It was freezing outside and about 90 in the Civic Center. People were fanning like crazy. I do not know how in the world they could get a place that big that hot. It was miserable. Celine was outstanding but the opening act was trash.
We are still trying to get the office and the "man cave" moved. It is slow progress. Josh put up new ceiling fans for us and they look really good. It is amazing at how out of date 10 year old ceiling fans can be. I still need 2 sets of drapes/curtains to complete the windows. We could use some touch-up paint in the living room, as well.
We are going to the lectureship from Sunday night until Wednesday. We did not get to go last year so we are looking forward to going.
I am excited about Levi's birthday because we bought him a train table. I think he is going to really enjoy it.
We do not officially have inauguration day off- we have to go clock in and then we can leave. Would we have been given that option had the election been won by a republican? I think not!

Okay- not much meat to the post but at least it is something. Hey, I kind of enjoy being boring because when I have something exciting to post it usually means something has happened, and that is not always good!

A New Year is Here

2009-01-04T08:27:00.002-06:00

Happy New Year to one and all. Wow, it is hard to believe the holidays are officially over and that school starts anew tomorrow. Given life and breath, the holidays will be back in about 10 months! I have truly enjoyed the season, although our family saw a lot of sickness which made things seem rather out of the ordinary.
We enjoyed going with the teens to Exposure. This is just a great opportunity. It is called a "camp" but it is not a "camp" in the way that we think of "camp". First, the accomodations are great- the Embasy Suites! Also, the kids spend the majority of the day in Bible classes and assemblies with a variety of teachers and speakers. The entire day is spent going from one class to another and at night they have a period where they meet as teams for another devotional and then to play games or get to know the people in their groups. On one afternoon they have about 3 hours of free time to go to the mall or just "chill out". What a great way to end a year and to start the new year.
I am so thankful for the blessings of this year. Mary's transplant has to be one of the highlights, for certain. We are so thankful that she is feeling better and that her energy seems to be returning every day. On the other side of life, we saw sadness with the loss of Josh and Katie's unborn baby and we still think of this little soul and the broken hearts that he left behind. As with all things, we know that while we do not always understand the workings of life, we know that God does, and He holds us in His hands. That is a comforting thought at times when our hearts are hurting.
Again, may 2009 find health, happiness, and contentment for all of my friends and family. I love you all!

EXPOSURE 2008

2008-12-27T11:07:00.005-06:00

We are packed and ready to head to Huntsville for Exposure 2008. This is a great time for our young people and for the adults that attend. David will be teaching a class this year. David has always been so committed to young people and he jokingly told our kids that they were going with their "Old Minister" as opposed to their "Youth Minister"! I don't think they think he is too old!
Exposure 2007 was the location where I made the decision that I had to shed some pounds! Thankfully I am returning about 80 pounds lighter than last year. Since Thanksgiving it has been a battle. I am up about 3 or 4 pounds, which is okay considering the parties and food that I have been around. I am now back on the straight and narrow, so those pounds should be gone by the new year, if all goes well. I have good resolve and it is hard to believe that on the 29th I will have been on this program for a year. I hope to lose 50-60 pounds this year- which will put me about where I need to be. I will never be at the weight that those chart say I need to be- but I can be healthy. I plan to add exercise to my program this year. David is actually running again- WOW- I am so proud of him! Working together has made it so much easier. To Huntsville we go!

Christmas Eve

2008-12-24T09:36:00.003-06:00

Today is one of my favorite days of the year- Christmas Eve. As a child, we celebrated Christmas on Christmas Eve. Santa started coming on Christmas Eve when my sister was small. Mother said that Patsy got sick from the excitement, so instead of making her wait until Christmas day, Santa decided to come early. We have always celebrated our family gathering on Christmas Eve, so it is a special time. Memories flood my soul on Christmas Eve. I miss my mother perhaps the most on this day- a feeling that has not diminished in over 10 years. I guess it is because this day is about much more than gifts- it is about family. This is the one night of the year when my family will, for the most part, be together. We will eat, exchange gifts, laugh, watch the newest generation entertain us, and reminisce about those gone on and days past. Memories are powerful, and I am thankful for them. I know that if there are holes in the floor of Heaven, then Mother will certainly be looking down on her family on this special night.
To all my friends and family- Merry Christmas and my prayers for a wonderful new year!

Thanks, Kim and Paul for the Blog Makeover!

2008-12-21T15:53:00.003-06:00

Thanks to Kim, Paul and kids for the Blog makeover for my birthday. Teale did a great job, and I am truly excited about the new look. Just think- just a very few years ago no one knew what a blog was- much less give someone a "blog makeover" as a gift. Times are a changing! Do you like the new look?

Happy Birthday, Katie

2008-12-19T09:45:00.002-06:00

Happy Birthday, Katie Courington! We love and appreciate you. You are a great wife and mother, and Josh and Hannah are so lucky to have you. I know this has been a tough few weeks, but you have shown such strength and courage. Thank you for being you!
Susan

Happy Birthday and Happy Anniversary- A little early!

2008-12-17T09:16:00.001-06:00

I just could not let the occasion pass without wishing my wonderful husband a happy birthday (Dec. 18th) and Happy 32nd Anniversary (20th). I had a little time and I knew the next days would be busy, so I decided to write a little while I had a minute.
David, you are truly my rock. I think we have had a great partnership during the past 3 decades- and I look for the next 3 decades to be even better. You have supported me during good times and bad, you have been my “ear” and my “shoulder”. I cannot imagine life without you in it. It seems like only yesterday that we were just teenagers- and now, my oh my, time surely does fly. I remember when we would talk about our “imaginary” family- and now we have a “real” one, complete with beautiful grandchildren. The years we spent raising our kids were wonderful, and now to see the fruits of all those school projects, ball games, wrecked cars, and broken hearts come to such a wonderful point, makes all the hustle and bustle and tired days worth it all. I enjoy our time together and the fact that we never tire of one another. I love spending my every moment with you and never hunt a reason not to be with you. You have made my life so happy, and I want the world to know that you are tops in my book. So, Happy Birthday (you will soon be as old as me!) and Happy Anniversary to the one I love.

Sharing My Darlings!

2008-12-16T14:26:00.005-06:00

Happy Birthday, Beautiful Addi!

2008-12-01T09:07:00.003-06:00

Today my beautiful, sweet, smart, granddaughter turns 6 years old. I would have to write a book to tell how much I love her. She changed my world on December 1, 2002. Her birth was such a scary day- not at all how we had envisioned it. We came so close to tragedy on that day and at times when I look at Addi and Kim and think about how that day changed our lives, I can't help but thank God for bringing them both through. Addi's birth caused me to look at each pregnancy and birth since that point in a much different way. When you go from being on the mountaintop to being in the valley in just a few short minutes, it brings home the point that life is fragile at it's best. All that aside, I am so thankful for having Addi in my life. She is my precious firstborn grandchild, and she will always hold a special place in Granna's heart.
In other news, remember Mandi and her family in your prayers. Her grandfather was killed in a car accident on Saturday night. The services will be tomorrow at 2. There were only 2 grandchildren, so needless to say, he was special to Mandi.
Have a great week!
Susan

Remember Your Blessings

2008-11-27T09:15:00.002-06:00

As I sit here on this Thanksgiving morning in the warmth of my home, in front of my 46 inch Bravia HD watching the Macy's Day Thanksgiving Parade (one of the highlights of my year), I thought about the 2 big turkeys that I am about to get ready to cook, about the refrigerator full of prepared food waiting on my family, and my mind went to my "children" at school. I work at a school where 98% of the students qualify for free or reduced lunch. Yes, some may not be truthful on their applications, but most are. I work with children who are often hungry- and they will tell you that. They get breakfast and lunch at school- but that means that some of them go long hours without a good meal. I shudder when I think about the weekends for many of these precious children. I do what I can- and I have a principal that has a knack for spotting hunger and trying to deal with it, but it is sad. We are soooooo blessed. We have such a bounty that I have had to work hard to get some of the bounty off my booty this year! Have you ever really been hungry? Hungry when you did not know that eventually you would get a meal, or pull into a drive-through for a burger and fries? About the only time I have ever been truly hungry may have been times following surgery or tests when food was not an option- not because I could not get it. I never remember being hungry as a child, although we had some very lean times when Daddy would be on strike or when the mines closed. Somehow my precious Mother kept us fed- she was a good manager! So, today when we pass around the counter, think of those who may not have this blessing and thank God. My Mother's favorite saying was- "Save by the Grace of God, go there I"- food for thought!

Blog Rerun

2008-11-25T08:16:00.002-06:00

This is a rerun from 2006. My niece, Leslie, who resides in California wrote this and I wanted to share it again. We are so looking forward to Thanksgiving and Peanut Butter Pie! Enjoy.

Thanksgiving – Dixie Style

When I was asked to write a blog about my favorite Thanksgiving memory, I was flooded with so many, I had a hard time choosing what to write about. When I was younger, Thanksgiving was a time to hang out with my family and eat great food. I really didn’t think much about the holiday beyond that. I left my hometown of Birmingham, Alabama five years ago to pursue an acting career in Los Angeles, and Thanksgiving certainly carries a lot more weight for me now than it did then. No matter what, I go home for Thanksgiving every year. Now, instead of it being about hanging out with my family, it is about reconnecting with my family. While I used to enjoy eating great food, I now savor aromas and tastes I can only get when I make that 2,000 mile trek home. So many things I used to take for granted about that time of year in the South I don’t anymore: hearing the crunch of leaves underneath my feet, feeling the bristle of wind whip my hair around, watching those long red sunsets through the crisp air. Those are just the moments by myself. After spending the better part of the year alone in my little Los Angelian apartment, it is great to be surrounded by my family: loud, boisterous, welcoming, loving, and always ready to have a good time. In addition to eating all the great food (I’ll get to that in a minute), we spend the evening playing Balderdash and other competitive games like it’s the Olympics, draw names for who we will buy gifts for at Christmas and catch up on what’s going on in everyone’s life. The food, ah, the food. Like any Southern family, we have enough food to feed a small nation. It all tastes good, and it is all bad for you. My very favorite dish is my aunt’s peanut butter pie. When I tell people this, they say, “Oh yeah, I’ve had peanut butter pie” to which I quickly reply, “Oh no you haven’t!” How do I know this? I HAVEN’T SEEN THEM AT ANY OF MY THANKSGIVINGS! My aunt makes the best peanut butter pie ever. I’ve always associated peanut butter pie with Thanksgiving, and now that I travel cross-country to eat it, she makes two for good measure. It may sound silly, but knowing I will get that peanut butter pie the fourth Thursday of every November brings warmth and security to my life. I may not know how successful my acting career will be, but hey, on Thanksgiving I get peanut butter pie. I may be separated from my family for the vast majority of the year, but end of November, I get peanut butter pie. If nobody appreciates my talents and sacrifices, I STILL get peanut butter pie. I have friends who moved to LA from other parts of the country like myself, and many of them talk about how they can’t go home because of the cost of air fare, time off of work, blah, blah, blah. I simply reply, “Well, I have a date in Alabama with a peanut butter pie.” I can’t remember who it was who said the simple things in life bring us the greatest pleasure, but I couldn’t agree more. As you can see, the pie isn’t difficult to make, but I think it is the love instead of the ingredients that make it so great!
From my Aunt Susan:
Ingredients:8 ounces Cream Cheese
1 cup Powdered Sugar
1/2 cup creamy peanut butter1
6 ounces Cool Whip
1 pre-made graham cracker pie crust
Directions:In a large bowl, mix the cream cheese, powdered sugar, peanut butter, and cool whip until well blended. Pour into the pre-made pie crust. Refrigerate. For a more peanut butter taste, use 2/3 cup of creamy peanut butter.
Leslie McGuirkPasadena, CA

Food for Thought

2008-11-24T12:02:00.000-06:00

BE THANKFUL
Be thankful that you don't already have everything you desire.If you did, what would there be to look forward to?
Be thankful when you don't know something,for it gives you the opportunity to learn.
Be thankful for the difficult times.During those times you grow.
Be thankful for your limitations,because they give you opportunities for improvement.
Be thankful for each new challenge,because it will build your strength and character.
Be thankful for your mistakes.They will teach you valuable lessons.
Be thankful when you're tired and weary,because it means you've made a difference.
It's easy to be thankful for the good things.A life of rich fulfillment comes to those who are also thankful for the setbacks.
Gratitude can turn a negative into a positive.Find a way to be thankful for your troubles,and they can become your blessings.
~~ Author Unknown ~~

Well, Dr. Phil would be happy

2008-11-18T10:37:00.002-06:00

I bit the bullet and gave away most of my too big clothes. Pray I made the right choice! Dr. Phil says give them away, so I did.
We are okay- still trying to cope and still praying for Josh and Katie. It still seems unreal for me, so I know it does for them.
I am looking forward to Thanksgiving. We have much to be thankful for, even in light of the loss of this past week. Life is truly a roller coaster- and we are strapped on for the ride as long as we are on this side of eternity.
My co-workers have been wonderful to me since I returned on yesterday. I have had gifts and tokens placed on my desk, hugs, cards, and tears shared. I am blessed beyond words to work where I do. I also found out we had been selected as a Title I Distinguished School, which is a rare honor. I am going to San Antonio in February to receive the award, along with my principal and assistant principal. We will be there from Thursday until Sunday. Should be fun!

Blog Therapy

2008-11-15T21:24:00.002-06:00

Thanks for all the sweet comments concerning the loss of the baby. I think blogging is pretty good therapy. I think we write things that we might not verbalize- and that we respond with words that we might not be able to vocalize.
We are all still trying to cope with this loss. I have this great mental picture of my dear mother reaching out to take this sweet baby's little hand and welcome him or her to eternity. I can see MaMa Studdard making certain that God turns up the thermostat because there is a little baby in the house. I know that Bill and Lila Mae have to be there on the welcoming committee, as well as so many others. Lila Mae probably has that baby a quilt made! While I certainly do not know how Heaven works, thinking of images such as these helps to ease the pain. The sun will rise tomorrow, Lord willing, and with each day we will move forward. For Josh and Katie, the move will be slower- but we are here to hold their hands and to help them as they deal with the emotions of this loss. Continue to pray for us. The concern and love that have been shown truly means a lot to me, and I know to Katie and Josh, as well.

Our Hearts are Sad Tonight

2008-11-13T21:16:00.002-06:00

Our hearts are sad as our sweet, unborn baby has been lost. I have never lost a baby, but tonight I have lost a grandbaby. We had such anticipation, as we have with the other grandchildren, and now we feel very empty. Though this baby had been in our lives just a short time, that does not minimize the hopes and dreams that we all had for this wee one. Katie and Josh are heart-broken, as this was a much wanted and loved sweet soul. Please pray for all of us, but especially Katie and Josh. Hannah hugged her daddy for such a long time tonight- she seemed to sense his hurt and put her sweet head on his shoulder for the longest time. Katie will be having a D & C tomorrow, so hold her in your thoughts and prayers.

Pray for JaKiera

2008-11-04T12:57:00.003-06:00

Please remember to pray for our transplant baby. Temeka talked to Mary yesterday and JaKiera is going through the same thing Mary went through last week. They are doing a biopsy today and she said she would let us know what was going on. She has been readmitted to the hospital, which I assume is because of her age. They had hoped to return to Mississippi on Friday, but I am certain that is not going to happen at this point.
Mary went to the movies yesterday! They were the only ones in the theatre, so we will not give her too hard of a time. Her bloodwork is improving and they hope to get it all adjusted where her shaking will stop. Thankfully- NO ITCHING!

Random Monday Morning Thoughts

2008-11-03T11:20:00.000-06:00

I have had some random thoughts on this Monday morning, so I decided to blog. I have been thinking about how wonderful the month of November truly is, and not just because it is my birthday month. November is like the threshold to the holidays- and, like most people, I love the holidays. I enjoy Thanksgiving and Christmas because of the opportunity to celebrate with my favorite people- my family. We have been blessed to have parents, children, grandchildren, siblings, in-laws, nieces, nephews, and even our children’s in-laws to celebrate the holidays with us. I enjoy fixing the Thanksgiving feast and watching those around me enjoy the meal. What fun. I also love the period of time between Thanksgiving and Christmas- the shopping, Christmas carols, food, gatherings, you name it. I can hardly wait! This year, of course, will be even more wonderful since Mary has her new liver and will be feeling better. We might even string some lights on her!
Christmas is so exciting, especially when there are little ones around. Our Christmas Eve and Christmas day have been made so special with the addition of the wee ones. For several years it seemed like we had “older” kids, but since Addi’s arrival, the little ones have been resupplied. Our family has always been on the “smaller” side, but I think we have made good progress at moving into the “mid-size” range. I am not certain what the numbers are for “mid-size” but I will just say we are.
One of my mother’s wishes was that her family remain a “family”. I think she would be proud of us.
In other news and notes- we are going to take a trip to Gatlinburg this week. We are leaving on Friday morning and we will be back on Tuesday night. While a little short, 4 nights is a nice get-away. I am excited to see all the decorations- it is beautiful during the holiday season.
This morning when I got out of bed I thought to myself that I had no aches or pains. How great. Prior to losing this weight, my back would hurt me if I stayed in bed very long. I guess it was a “touch” of arthritis, but now I never notice it. Is that not good? I have been blessed to not have many of the “fat” folks problems- diabetes, high blood pressure, etc., but I knew I was a ticking time bomb. I still have to give myself a lecture when I am around food- like this weekend, but then when I get on the scales, I am thankful that I did not give in. Reality is- if I can just hold on until I go to bed, once I get up I am not even hungry. I usually wait until about 9 or 9:30 to eat something in the morning, and even at that I am not just starving. I always tell myself if I give in and eat, especially at night before bedtime, I will not even realize that I have eaten it come morning- does that make sense? David put us up a new flat screen digital TV in front of the treadmill. He was walking when I left for work- so I am going to have to get on there and add the exercise to my program. I think having the TV will take away from the boredom of just walking by myself.
Well, enough random thoughts. Am I the only one looking forward to the holidays???

Happy Halloween!

2008-10-31T11:33:00.002-05:00

Today is Halloween and all is well. Mary went to the doctor this morning, but I have not heard from her as of yet. Hopefully her meds have adjusted. When they increased them the other day, then the level was too high. I know it is going to take some time to get her "regulated", but we know that eventually she will be running full force. We can't wait. I really believe she will be feeling great by the holidays, and that is going to be wonderful.
I went to WW last night- another BIG number- .6! That means I have lost 2 pounds in the past 2 weeks. I am doing my part (save the exercise!), so I know that I am just at the point where the loss is going to be slow. 80 pounds in 10 months- not too bad. At least this is something I can live with. Even at the rate of .6 that is nearly 3 pounds a month, so I guess that is a good way to look at it. The girl that does the weighing at WW is so sweet and encouraging. I was kind of bummed and she said- "Girl, that is great. You have had a loss every week but one and that is almost unheard of!" She made my day. I have about 3 pounds I really want to shed by Thanksgiving, and I think I can do that even with my trip to Gatlinburg next week (I am soooo excited about my trip!)
I am looking forward to our Halloween party tonight. I made cheese dip and it is soooo good. I am going to have me some, even if it is like 20 points! Oh the holidays are hard for watching food consumption.
On a cute note- Lila is such a big girl and she is talking very well for a baby who is just 12 months old. On Wednesday night at church when the kids did Trunk or Treat she was saying, as plain as day, "I have candy!" So cute. All the kids looked so cute and had a great time. We have photos and I will try to add some later.
Have a spooktacular day.

Mary Update

2008-10-29T08:23:00.001-05:00

The biopsy showed some "mild" rejection, so they are increasing some of the anti-rejection drugs. Hopefully this will get Mary over this hurdle. While we knew these things could happen, we hoped that the trip would be without any of these type of problems. She is sore and bruised from the biopsy, but still seems to be doing well. She will have more blood work this morning. Please continue to pray that the medicines will do the trick.

Happy Birthday, Kim

2008-10-28T10:05:00.002-05:00

I am typing from the waiting room at UAB. We are waiting on word. The doctor came by and got our phone numbers and said he should call with the results around 4 this afternoon. We are not certain if they were already doing the procedure or not. I will update when I have news.
Today is my first-born child's 30th birthday. I cannot believe I have a 30 year old child. My goodness, I am getting old! What a great 30 years. Kim is my heart, my first beautiful baby, the one I probably made a lot of mistakes with, but also learned how to "mother". She has made us so proud- what a great kid!
Also, happy birthday to my wonderful niece Lisa. Lisa and Kim share the day. Lisa was born when I was 8- one of the big events of my childhood. She, too, has made my world a better place. It's kind of funny the Kim and Lisa share a birthday, and that my sister and myself also nearly hit having a baby on the same day a second time- Laura's birthday is August 3rd and Daniel's is August 1st. That would have been a real coincidence!
Keep praying- we hope for good news today.
Susan
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Please remember Mary in prayer today

2008-10-27T09:56:00.002-05:00

Mary went in for her blood work this morning and her liver enzymes had doubled over the weekend. They will do an ultrasound this afternoon and a liver biopsy tomorrow. While we knew there would be ups and downs, it has been so "up" that we were not prepared for a "down". We fully trust that all will be well, but I am personally asking that today you say a special pray. Even if Mary is starting to reject, the doctors have told her that adjustments in medication often stops the rejection process. I know that Mary is worried, and certainly dreads having to have the biopsy (which will be done under sedation). She has done so well through this whole ordeal and we are praying that this is just a small bump in the road to a successful recovery. I love you, Mary and I am trusting God to see you through this procedure and recovery.

Thanksgiving Early

2008-10-19T15:19:00.002-05:00

You know, I love the fall. I love Thanksgiving- being with my family, the cool, crisp days, the thought of Christmas just around the corner. In reality, I feel like our family has had Thanksgiving early this year. Mary is doing great and I am so thankful. This has been such a stressful time for the family, especially Mary, Billy and the kids, and to have everything to have gone so smoothly is just a blessing from above. You know, David's side of the family is pretty small- just David and Billy, their parents, one aunt, and one cousin. So Billy, Mary and the kids have been such a close part of our lives. I told someone at work that I don't think that some people understood how emotional this had been for me, since they probably thought- well, it is just her sister-in-law. But coming from a small, close little family it has been a big event. I believe that the turkey is going to smell better than ever, the dressing will be moist and tasty, the peanut butter pies will be just right, and the day after Thanksgiving sales will be the best ever. I am also excited about Christmas. This time last year we were in the mode of wondering when the transplant call would come. We have been afraid to plan or do much this past year, in anticipation of that important phone call. That feeling has subsided, and although in my heart I know there will be other things in life that stress us, and give us cause for concern, but for today, just for today, all is well in my world. Mary is just my hero through all of this- she has been brave and strong, and I am so proud of her.
I hope you all have the bestest week ever!!!!

Out of the mouth of the elderly...

2008-10-12T16:26:00.003-05:00

Okay..laugh at my expense.
Yesterday, David and I made a trip to the nursing home. As you enter there are glass doors and I was looking at myself thinking.."Okay, I can tell I have lost weight." I almost had the "thin" feel to myself (okay- believe me, thin is not what I am!), but I did have on black pants and a dark top, so I was feeling pretty good about myself. Anyway, we get into the Alzheimers unit and there is this little lady (well, she is actually short, but she is pretty chunky) and she comments, very quietly to the lady at the table with her (who does not know if it is day or night), "She is tall, (so I am thinking, "Oh, I am tall, that's okay), and then she adds, "and big, too!" Boy, talk about bursting a bubble. Go ahead...laugh... I did.
Mary is having a better day. She is up walking and they have her off the morphine (which was making her itch again). She is doing great. She still has a recovery ahead, and with 70 staples in your stomach you have to be sore, but she is still on target. She wanted to see Addi, and Jasmine and Alex took her today, so that was great medicine. We had Lila's first birthday, and of course she had a big time. She received several nice gifts, had a cute as pie cake, and had great fun eating her personal cupcake. She also had her other grandparents here from Oklahoma and we have enjoyed spending time with them today.
I will update soon, but for now, all is well. Please remember to pray for Mary each day when you say your prayers, and for little JaKeria (I put the wrong name on my last post- I have a student named KaKeria) who is still in ICU, but doing well at last report.

Oh the joys of this October morning!

2008-10-10T10:14:00.004-05:00

UPDATE!!!!!!!!!!! Mary may go to a room as early as this afternoon. Whoever out there praying, keep on because it is working! BONUS UPDATE!!!!!!!!! SHE IS NOT ITCHING!!!!!! THANK GOD IN HEAVEN FOR HIS MERCY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I can't help but think of the song by Frankie Valli that starts like this...
"Oh what a night...late December back in 63, what a very special time for me"
Only our version is early October in 2008!
Mary is going to be a poster child for liver transplants. She came off the respirator by midnight and was talking! The doctor in ICU was amazed, as she said that was very rare. We are so thankful, as Mary was dreading having to be on the respirator. She is strong and a survivor, for certain. We are so blessed. Continue your prayers.
On another note, the baby was doing well. When the doctor came out to talk to Temeka she was sitting in the circle with all of us and he said- "Is this your family?" Of course, I guess you have assumed that Temeka is a young, black mother, and all of us are white, which is correct. She looked around this circle of like 30 people and looked at him and said, "Yes, this is my family." Anyway Kakeria is doing great. She will probably go to Children's today, so we will have to keep track of her. Thanks to Mia, Tina, Teresa, Lindsey, for helping me put together a Kakeria fund. We were able to give her enough money to eat on for the weekend. The tears flowed as I pressed the money into her hand (which she did not want to take or did not ask for but was so appreciative of). Tina has already contacted a friend at Children's who knows the ends and outs and she is going to try to make certain that the family receives the correct services that they offer. We are a pretty good team when we all work together! Once she gets to a room, she will have a refrigerator and a microwave, so we can help them out with stocking the frig. I am going to go buy the baby some pajamas at some point today and try to pick up a few other little things. You know, I don't need anything..but they do. I am sooooo blessed. We are going to take care of both our liver people. I am surrounded by some of the greatest people on God's green earth. For my blog commenters, I love each one of you and appreciate your checking on Mary. Mary is special to so many people, and once she can, I am certain that she will go back and read all the comments. I will try to update as we get news.
Again, love to all!

God is so Good!!!!!

2008-10-09T21:51:00.002-05:00

God is so good! The transplant could not have gone better. The doctor said they might even get the breathing tube out tonight! He said the liver was wonderful and that it was already doing it's job. The baby (our new relative) is also doing great. The mom is with us as I type. She is anxious to see her baby. God is so good! We have been surrounded by family and friends, so many people. What a blessing. Keep praying!

Update

2008-10-09T18:09:00.002-05:00

We do not know anything at this point, but I want to share this. I decided I needed to meet whoever's child was getting the other half of the liver, so I made a trip around the waiting room until I located this young lady with a red wagon. I asked her if her baby was having surgery and she started to cry. She told me she was getting a liver- I just grabbed her and hugged her and told her we were getting the other half. They are from Jackson, Mississippi. The little girl, KaKeiria, is 2. The mom, Temeka, is here alone. Her husband is in Miss with their 4 year old who has a cold. She is so alone. We brought her to our part of the waiting room (which is full) and have adopted her. How sad to be alone. Then the tears flowed as she told us that her first baby boy had died of this liver problem at 13 days old. Okay folks...are you using tissue yet? I am. She works at a nursing home as an aide, and she said they had just started to try to save some money to make it through this time, but since it happened so quickly (3 weeks) she had not had the time to save much. Now you know we are going to have to help this situation out. Once the baby comes out of ICU she will go to Children's and then after 2 weeks they will go to the Ronald McDonald House. Pray for Mary. Pray for KaKeiria.

They Just Took Mary to Surgery!

2008-10-09T16:27:00.002-05:00

They just took Mary. The nurse said it would still be 30 minutes to an hour before they started, and then 4-7 hours after that. Keep praying!

Still Waiting...

2008-10-09T15:30:00.002-05:00

3:30- still waiting. They say they will take her back in the next "little" bit. We were told they had started on the liver separation about 1:30. A 2 year old little girl is getting the other half. At this point, we are looking at late night. Keep praying..............

Still Waiting

2008-10-09T11:08:00.000-05:00

As of last news- they have not "harvested" the liver, but will at about 2. It will take an hour and a half to split the liver, and they should begin about 4. If the surgery takes 6-8 hours, it might be midnight. Mary has been nauseated, but they gave her something. We are all just waiting. Keep praying, also for the baby that is getting the other half of the liver.

Good Spirits

2008-10-08T22:23:00.002-05:00

We have just returned from the hospital, and Mary is in great spirits. The surgery is scheduled for 9:30 a.m. but could be earlier. The operation will take 6 to 8 hours, so it will be a long day. Mary will be kept under full sedation for about 24 hours, which originally she was told 3 days. They say 7-10 days and she could be home. The doctor said the liver was in excellent shape. A little boy from Memphis is supposed to get part of the liver, but they were having a hard time reaching them so it might go to someone else. I can't understand why you would be unreachable if your child was waiting on a transplant, but then again, who am I?
Say a special prayer that the transplant is successful and that Mary does not have a rejection problem. We are hopeful that everything is going to go smoothly, but we still know that this is not like having a hang nail removed. UAB has a tremendously successful rate of success on liver transplants, but it is not every day that someone close to us is added to the statistics! We are so thankful that the day has arrived.

MARY GOT THE CALL!!!!

2008-10-08T14:14:00.001-05:00

YES, MARY GOT THE CALL!!! SHE HAS TO BE THERE IN AN HOUR AND HALF, BUT THE TRANSPLANT WILL NOT BE UNTIL TOMORROW MORNING. PLEASE, PLEASE, SAY YOUR PRAYERS FOR HER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Better Late than Never!

2008-10-07T12:08:00.001-05:00

I am so behind on my blogging. I finished the Cataloging class I was teaching this term. It took some of my extra time, so blogging fell to the wayside!
Updates-
First and most major, as most of you know, we are going to have a new grandbaby! We are very happy with the news from Josh and Katie. They are great parents, and we know this baby will be loved by everyone. Hannah will be a great sister, I know. What a girl!
WW continues to go well. I am at about 80 pounds, and still going. I have almost NO clothes, no coat, no shoes (my shoes are too big) and the underwear- well, we will not go there! I am going to go shopping on Columbus Day. One pair (I am serious as a heart attack) of pants does not a week make.
Lila is about to be one year old. What a baby doll she is. She is walking, talking, and being a big girl.
Addi and Levi continue to amuse us on a daily basis. Addi is doing great in school, soccer, and Fall ball. Levi is my heart- enough said! He seems to be doing some better with his busy self, and actually did good in church on Sunday night. He is going to do great things in life, if he survives childhood intact! Hannah continues to amaze me at her maturity. Things about her make me think of Kim at that age. She is wise beyond her 2 years, for certain.
David, my love, is still busy trying to return money to the Veteran’s Administration. Seriously. How can a government agency send you an extra $30,000.00 (or more)? He has tried his best to give it back, and nobody will take it. If it were not serious in regards to PaPa’s eligibility for Medicaid, it would be funny. It is almost like a bad dream that will not end. Pray for him.
Better run. I will try to do better at blogging- we shall see!